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The Difference Between BDSM And Abuse

I continually receive emails and comments at The BDSM Training Academy about how BDSM is a form of abuse. I find it very upsetting, especially when we try so hard to educate people on how to incorporate a safe, sane and consensual form of BDSM here at the Academy. BDSM is meant to enhance and strengthen a healthy, loving relationship.

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The Difference Between Fake And Real Dominants

Choosing the Dominant that you want to serve is a serious decision. One that is taken far too lightly but in fact should not be. Making yourself mentally and physically vulnerable to the wrong person can have terrible repercussions. A genuine Dominant can produce a supportive relationship that will allow a submissive to feel safe enough to be their true self.

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Setting Up Dom Sub Relationship For Success
Molly Lazarus

10 Tips to Set Up a New D/s Relationship for Success

The beginning of a relationship is a fragile time. One or both partners may still be on the fence as they learn each other’s quirks, preferences, triggers, world views, and all the rest. The first few intimate encounters usually involve some level of stress, regardless of how smoothly or erotically those sessions unfold. We want to think of falling in love as a magical process,

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Paul Bishop

Submissive Task: Stand And Understand

Before You Start As a submissive, you have every right to refuse any task you do not want to take part in. You never have to do anything you are uncomfortable, and/or unsure about. Just because you are submissive does not mean you must do anything you don’t want to do. That includes this task! Your participation is always your choice and your decision. Know

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No Impact Masochist Play BDSM
Molly Lazarus

No Hitting! 10 Painful, Impact-free Ways to Please a Masochist

Spanking, paddling, whipping, caning, mmm YUMMY. Words like these are music to a masochist’s ears. Well, some masochists, anyway. Believe it or not, there are those who don’t like to be hit. They may have experienced prior trauma related to hitting. Others simply don’t enjoy the sensation. In cases like these, doms must get creative. Whether your sub dislikes impact or you’re simply seeking additional

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BDSM Skills For Tough Times
Molly Lazarus

Make the Most of Your BDSM Skills During Lockdown

Welp, there’s no nice way of saying it. These are challenging times! Our individual and collective futures are loaded with uncertainty, and feeling isolated from those we love doesn’t help. Luckily for us kinky types, we already hold a number of valuable skills that can help us thrive through these tense periods of lockdown. Here’s how you can make the most of them. Sharing is

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Taking a Break from BDSM

Sometimes, you just need a break, don’t you? Change is, after all, a good way to get perspective, to learn about new things so that when you go back to what you know, you can be refreshed. However, BDSM is a different sort of practice. In order to have a strong BDSM relationship, you need to continue training and practicing the actions you decide to

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Please Stay Safe

As I am sure you are well aware, the world is currently in the midst of a global pandemic. Fear has swept the globe and depending on where you reside different measures have been put in place to help stop the spread of this disease. Here at the BDSM Training Academy, W/we have spent a lot of time discussing how to keep yourself safe within

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I had to accept my failures as a Dominant in BDSM
The BDSM Training Academy

House Rule: Failure

I wanted to write about a powerful topic that must people avoid and tends to keep the majority of us down. It considered worst than any four letter word and even more taboo to talk about these days then BDSM. And that is “FAILURE” In a time when the law of attraction and positive thinking have practically become new age religions. Nobody wants to even

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Submissive Working At BDSM Office
The BDSM Training Academy

Prepping For A Meeting: My Turn

“Stand Up!” Davina commanded, “Faster, FASTER!”

Desperately trying to move as quickly as humanly possible on unstable quivering legs was a harder task than one would expect.

Davina knew this, but her sympathy was lacking due to her own needs to meet her Boss’ requirements.

Impatient Davina, grabbed her assistant by the hair and arm, helping to peel her off the table.

Quickly spinning her around, Davina gazed into

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Submissive Headspace Is Where You Long
The BDSM Training Academy

Sub Question: How To Get Into A Submissive Headspace

Submissive Question:
i have finally figured out that i am far more submissive then i ever thought possible. That is all thanks to you and all the information you have given me. i don’t know where i would be without your guidance.

While i know i want to be more submissive to my mistress, i find there are times when i’m just not in the mood

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Compartmentalize Your BDSM Self
Molly Lazarus

Learn To Compartmentalize Your BDSM Self

Much of what we do in BDSM involves roleplay, and not just the ‘strict teacher / naughty student’ dress-up variety. Simply acting as the top or bottom in a scene is a role in itself, complete with its own responsibilities, energy, and intentions. The more we’re able to immerse ourselves in the headspace of our role during play, the more powerful the experience becomes.

The intense

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Devoted Submissive In Training
The BDSM Training Academy

Master, i’m Yours

i awaken at the first rays of the sun, blinking… slowly getting out of bed… i am used to it by now… unlike the routine that stretches out in front of me…i am here to be trained as a love slave… Your love slave, for I belong to You now… the purpose of my very existence is to bring You pleasure… in whichever form You

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Chained And Ready For Leather Cane
The BDSM Training Academy

Female Sub Story: Teaching A Slave To Spoon

A fantasy night with Master by slave d A fictional female submissive Dominant male erotic story (i do not fantasize about purposely displeasing Master in any way, however, as a slave-in-training, i recognize there are going to be times where this may unintentionally happen. This is a fantasy about one of those instances.) It is early evening, and Master has just finished the dinner i

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