Warning: Fake Profiles & Fraudulent Emails

It has recently come to My attention that there are people on the net claiming to be associated with the BDSM Training Academy when there are not. These people are saying that they are either Myself (Master Bishop) or Mistress Sophia or claiming they are located at another branch some where other then O/our head…

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Sex Shop Role Play Scene

Role playing is a vital part not only of training in BDSM, but also in the way that a slave and their Master or Mistress can begin to challenge their new skills. By taking the slave into a new situation, the slave begins to see how they are progressing in their role and the Master or Mistress can begin to see how far they can push their slave and mold their slave into the perfect submissive. In a sex shop scene, you can use all of the toys you have in your dungeon (maybe add some new ones), many to punish, others to test, and in the end, you will both begin to see just how strong the relationship can become.

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Setting up the Sex Toy Shop
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When A Dominant Does Not Want To Hurt A Sub

While it might not seem to be the usual story, some dominants aren’t interested in punishing their submissives. They might have to take on this task during the training, but what they’re more interested in is creating true subservience in their slaves. These dominants want to have a slave that simply wants to do what they are told because that is a way to please their dominant. Whether in a Mistress or Master relationship, this dominant wants to be with someone who actively tries to please them because they are truly submissive.

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Don’t Want to be the Bad Guy?
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Pain Versus Anxiety In BDSM

As a slave, there are a lot of things that you can be feeling at any given time – pain, pressure, and fear, as well as joy, ecstasy, and sweet submission. But during an intense scene, it can be difficult to decide what you are feeling. You might be concerned that you are being hurt in a way that is not acceptable to you or perhaps your fear is turning into anxiety and is becoming overwhelming, so you may need to stop and use your safe word. However, you also don’t want to stop a scene early if you are enjoying it. Figuring out what you are feeling can be difficult, so here are some tips to see whether you really need to stop the scene or if you need to push through your pain.

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Fear, Anxiety & Eye Popping Pain
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Dom/sub Journal: Embarrassed

I was sitting in front of My computer the other day and I was wondering what W/we could do at the academy that would help people to learn more about themselves and their desires within the Dom/sub lifestyle.

Then it hit Me, one of the best tools within BDSM training is for both the Dom and sub to keep a journal of their thoughts, feelings and their interpretation of the experiences that they have. By writing out things out, you make your feelings more concrete. By seeing your feelings physically written on paper, it helps to let you know how you feel. On top of that, you can always go back and review what you have written in the past. This allows you to reread past experiences so you can remind yourself of what you have learned but also to show you how you have grown and changed from these experiences.

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When BDSM Goes Wrong

If you’ve been in a BDSM relationship for any period of time, you will notice that some scenes are better than others. Even though you might have everything planned out, this doesn’t mean that you’re going to have it go the way you’ve planned. And in some cases, you might have a very horrible scene, one in which one or both partners have troubles or get hurt. Here are some ways to handle the problem of when BDSM goes wrong.

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The Nurturing Daddy Dom

Often, the ‘daddy’ is someone who is in charge of the relationship. While some might not take well to this term, preferring ‘Master’ instead, the softer name has other connotations that might help to create a connection between the partners in a BDSM relationship. The idea of one person being the protector of the other person, the keeper of their safety is something that can foster trust and lead to more effective training.

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Giving Your Sub the Apron Treatment

Service – it’s what your slave should be doing for you every moment that you ask. While you might not be able to think of new things for them to do all the time, it’s a good idea to train your slave in how to serve his Mistress, should the need arise. Whether they are a house slave or a traditional slave, you need to ensure they are always ready and waiting for your commands, even if it just means they need to polish your boots or cook you a nutritious dinner.

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