BDSM is meant to enhance and strengthen a healthy, loving relationship. In no way shape or form, would W/we ever support any form of abuse. It is wrong to physically or emotionally lash out at another person and cause that person any form of mental, emotional or physical harm or duress.
In the image below you will be able to see a list of the big differences that I believe separate BDSM from abuse. Have a look and let Me know what you think.
Choosing the Dominant that you want to serve is a serious decision. One that is taken far too lightly but in fact should not be. Making yourself mentally and physically vulnerable to the wrong person can have terrible repercussions. A genuine Dominant can produce a supportive relationship that will allow a submissive to feel safe enough to be their true self thus allowing for more intense experiences. In the image below you will be able to see a list of the big differences that I believe separate BDSM from abuse. Have a look and let Me know what you think.
BDSM Question I think the real problem that causes subs to misbehave is that there is an insecure feeling about how to start a nice evening. Let me tell you how it started to go wrong with me and my former Master (and relation). The only way I ever started a session was by saying ‘honey do you want to come upstairs so we can […]
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The positions that your slave can place themselves in for you are a great way to measure the training progress of a beginner as well as an advanced slave. No matter where your slave is, they should be able to present themselves to you in your chosen way.
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The stereotypical image of a Master is a man in leather who simply takes a woman up over his shoulder and forces her to do whatever he wants her to do. And basically, this is the case with most BDSM relationships. However, just as there are many flavors of ice cream, there are also many ‘flavors’ of Masters. If you’re still struggling to find your
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BDSM Question: I am in the position where I have a female partner who wants so much to be a sub and wants me to dominate her. I love her deeply and as I am afraid to hurt her, I know that if I do not dominate her, I will probably lose her as she is deeply into the sub role. We have had a
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While you might think otherwise, not all Mistresses are the same. Though they share the same quality of dominating a slave, the way in which they provide this domination can vary from relationship to relationship. In order to make sure you present yourself as the ‘right’ sort of Mistress for the slave you have in mind, you will want to think about where you fit
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With each week, I sit down and review the surveys that are filled out for the site. I normally look to see, what people enjoy, where W/we can make improvements and different areas that people need help with. One common problem I did notice was that many people are having a hard time finding durable, quality bondage and BDSM gear. Its for this reason, that
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Boot worship is on many Dominants minds during their BDSM scenes. After all, there’s nothing more submissive than having a slave at your feet, licking your leather for as long as you tell them to do. But if you’re still a beginner to boot worship, it can help to understand how to construct a great boot worship scene for you and for your slave. Thankfully,
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As a slave, you have a lot of responsibilities to your Master/Mistress. You have to show him that you are listening to what he is telling you and that you are going to do what he commands you to do. Even though you might not have thought you were going to be a good slave in the beginning, over time, and with dedication, you have
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Pain is a beautiful thing in BDSM, especially when it’s done right. No matter what your personal preference is for giving or receiving pain, you need to make sure that you’re giving your slave pain in a way that will not only cause them to feel hurt, but that will also cause them to feel ecstasy. And this takes practice, especially when the slave and
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Every now and then, you need to change things up. And when you’re satisfied with the training, you need to think about how you can spruce up your environment so that the training can be more effective. Cleaning your play room might be just the thing to turn your training into a more effective process, even if nothing else changes. And its always a good
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P.S. just love all the new tricks I have learned
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