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Abrasion Play

Is a activity used to stimulate and sensitize a person’s skin.  This can be performed gently to create a mild sensation and help to sensitize the skin with an item like a hairbrush. With some mild rubbing from a hairbrush, a spank, a gentle touch, even a light blow of your breath can become heightened. …

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BDSM

There are a number of ways that you might define BDSM, and each is ‘correct’ in its own way. Some define BDSM as Bondage, Discipline, Sadism, and Masochism while others take the letters and create Bondage, Dominance, Submission, and Masochism. And still others might say that BDSM is comprised of Bondage and Dominance, as well …

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Bondage

Bondage is the act of tying or being tied up.  However, bondage is more than just getting out the bundle of rope and starting to make knots. It’s an intricate balance of trust between the Dominant and the submissive. The Dominant needs to trust that the submissive will tell them if something is hurting too …

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Debriefing

Is a discussion outside of the dungeon or play space a day or two after a session to go over the experiences both or all parties had during a training/play scene. A debriefing discussion can be highly beneficial to both the Dominant and the submissive. Be careful of having such an intense discussion too soon …

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SSC

Stands for Safe Sane And Consensual It is the basis of what many people in the BDSM lifestyle believe is the cornerstone to creating an environment where all parties involved in a scene can safe, comfortable and happy. Lets breakdown each one: Safe You’re not going to do anything or participate in anything that might …

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Switch

Another term that pops up frequently in BDSM circles is the idea of a ‘switch.’ This is a person that identifies as both a dominant and a submissive, depending on who they are with or what they want to do at a particular time. So, for example, a person might bottom to one person one …

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