Kink

The Joys Of Anal Anal is the act of playing, stimulating or training the outer and/or inner anus. What many people don’t realize is, the anus has millions of nerve endings that produce pleasurable feelings when properly and safely stimulated. Which is why this is a fetish and sexual act that is enjoyed by many people within the BDSM community including but not limited too:

An enema is the simple task of putting water up into the anus to clean out any remaining fecal matter in the bowel. Water is pushed up into the rectum and then as it mixes with the matter that is present, your body then flushes it out into the toilet for disposal. When people have severe problems with constipation, an enema might be administered to help relieve the discomfort and eliminate the blockage. While a medical solution to begin with for many people the act of the enema is a truly arousing and intoxicating fetish.

Negotiating In BDSM As with any successful relationship, you need to understand the expectations of everyone involved. This is especially important in the case of a relationship that will include the giving up of control of one to the other – negotiating what each individual wants and doesn’t want must be done first before jumping into this sort of arrangement. But Why Negotiate? Just winging

Is a discussion outside of the dungeon or play space a day or two after a session to go over the experiences both or all parties had during a training/play scene. A debriefing discussion can be highly beneficial to both the Dominant and the submissive. Be careful of having such an intense discussion too soon after a scene, people can still be overly excited from

Stands for Safe Sane And Consensual It is the basis of what many people in the BDSM lifestyle believe is the cornerstone to creating an environment where all parties involved in a scene can safe, comfortable and happy. Lets breakdown each one: Safe You’re not going to do anything or participate in anything that might severely harm you or another person. If you believe that

Is a activity used to stimulate and sensitize a person’s skin.  This can be performed gently to create a mild sensation and help to sensitize the skin with an item like a hairbrush. With some mild rubbing from a hairbrush, a spank, a gentle touch, even a light blow of your breath can become heightened. Skin on skin rubbing can be used to create an

Bondage is the act of tying or being tied up.  However, bondage is more than just getting out the bundle of rope and starting to make knots. It’s an intricate balance of trust between the Dominant and the submissive. The Dominant needs to trust that the submissive will tell them if something is hurting too badly, while the submissive needs to trust that they are

Another term that pops up frequently in BDSM circles is the idea of a ‘switch.’ This is a person that identifies as both a dominant and a submissive, depending on who they are with or what they want to do at a particular time. So, for example, a person might bottom to one person one night and then ‘top’ to someone else on another night