Ways To Balance Your Vanilla Life With Your BDSM Life

Your BDSM life is something that you value, something that you believe in and something that you enjoy. But what happens when you’re also balancing the idea of a vanilla life? For some BDSM couples, it’s not just about the BDSM they enjoy, but they also want to have times of vanilla. And the question…

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Waiting For Her Flogging

She closed her eyes and leaned against the cold hard wall, as she waited in heightened anticipation for the flogging she had begged her Master for. It had felt like months since her last flogging, though it had only been a few days. The memory of leather falls striking against her flesh was slowly fading.…

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Choosing A Collar

A BDSM slave training collar for many people is a symbol of a Dominant and submissive relationship. When used and applied properly, a submissive training collar can help to strengthen a Dom/sub relationship. It helps to reinforce the roles within a Dom/sub relationship. The slave knows they are submissive once the collar is placed around…

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How BDSM Enhanced My Life

As with many long term relationships things change and evolve and sometimes these changes are not for the better, but then there are times when the changes are over the top amazingly fulfilling. O/our journey into the BDSM lifestyle and our new 24/7 TPE (Total power exchange) relationship has brought a new dynamic to our…

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Why Would Someone Want To Be A Slave?

Why would someone want to be submissive? Why would someone want to be controlled? I find this question to be quite refreshing, as many people just talk about how they like something and they never question WHY they like it. So, for those who haven’t been in the submissive role, it’s a mystery as to…

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