Obedience is not a default. It is a gift.Guidance is not something you are entitled to. It is a responsibility accepted.Both must be proven in practice, not presumed by title. Submission should be: Dominance should be:Safety is the frame. Decisions are the path. Pleasure is the reward. What breaks the bond Defiance and entitlement: “I gave submission once, now I get guidance forever.” “I only

We’re closing in on the final part of this series about BDSM Protocols. But before we wrap up, I want to encourage you to reach out with your questions and ideas for anything I haven’t covered yet. It’s entirely possible that I missed something unique, or a special type of protocol that means a lot to you. If you have any comments or questions about

A Beginners Guide to 24/7 TPE in the Master/slave Dynamic First, let’s dispel some of the misconceptions around a Master/slave dynamic. It is not, as one might imagine, a dynamic that has one individual holding power over an unwilling individual (or individuals). In the context of kink and BDSM, a Master/slave dynamic is one in which an individual takes the role of the Dominant and