Before we get going on implanting protocols, I want to make sure you read the two previous articles I wrote on the subject. In part one I looked at the definitions and origins of protocols, how they found their way from the military into the Old Guard BDSM players, what protocol levels are, and my own experiences with protocols. You can read the first part […]
BDSM Protocols: Part 3 – Implementing Protocols Read More »
The beginning of a relationship is a fragile time. One or both partners may still be on the fence as they learn each other’s quirks, preferences, triggers, world views, and all the rest. The first few intimate encounters usually involve some level of stress, regardless of how smoothly or erotically those sessions unfold. We want to think of falling in love as a magical process,
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Imagine your most erotic or deepest fantasy of Dominance and submission (D/s). What does it look like? How much control does the Dominant have over their submissive? What does the submissive allow or accept? Are the scenarios extremely rough or more playful? Are limits and boundaries stretched to the edge or is all play safe within your limits?
For many kinksters, the picture they have in their mind of D/s is often the most erotic and extreme version of a power exchange. But the question is can it be like this?
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When you’re in a relationship that focuses on power exchange, it can seem like this happens in one direction: the submissive serves the Dominant, without questions. While this might be the fantasy and the energy you want to create in a scene, it is still just a FANTASY. In reality, there are two (or more) people who each have their own needs and their own
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