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Pitfalls of New BDSM Relationships: How to Avoid Them, Or Climb Back Out of Them

Ask any veteran submissive tips on how to get started and you will hear three common themes: avoid submitting too soon, have limits, and don’t confine yourself to a label. Yet, veterans and newbies alike seem to take the do-not-do list and turn it into our things to-do list. In the heat and sexiness of scening, we end up on our knees handing our submission […]

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How To Respect And Follow Your Dominant’s Guidance In Their Absence In Kinky Situations

The presence of a Dominant can be hugely comforting in public. Having their guidance and being able to follow their lead in real time can relieve the stress and pressure of making decisions! But sadly our Dominants can’t follow us everywhere (or vice versa!) and often we must operate without their immediate guidance.

So let’s talk about how you as a submissive can respect and follow your Dominant’s guidance in kink settings when your Dominant is not physically present!

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BDSM Lifestyle 101: Making Your Fantasy a Reality

Dominant Male Training, Dominatrix Training, female submissive training, Male Submissive Training / By Bratty Ann

I will forever remember the day I realized the lifestyle I had only ever dreamed possible, was actually my reality. Way back in December 2014, I knelt before my Sir, lifted my hair into a ponytail, and felt the titanium of my collar lock around my neck. I was in Heaven. Pure bliss. And couldn’t believe my fantasies were now a reality–and how in love

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Remembering Relationship in BDSM Dynamics

Dominant Male Training, Dominatrix Training, female submissive training, Male Submissive Training / By Bratty Ann

In my years in BDSM, I have been blessed to experience 5 relationship dynamics. These dynamics spanned both the vanilla and kink worlds. We knew each other at a basic level, at an intimate level, and, of course, at a kink level. We cared about more than just how well we did impact play together, or how great our Shibari looked. We cared about each

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8 Ways to Help Your Dom Feel Comfortable Exploring BDSM More Deeply

female submissive training, Male Submissive Training / By Molly Lazarus

We often like to think of doms as the sexy, invincible superheroes of our fantasies. To be led through our BDSM journey by someone calm, confident, and in charge puts us at ease, allowing us to open up and explore in spite of our nervousness or vulnerability. The reality, of course, is that dom-identifying kinksters are human like the rest of us and need help along the way from time to time. If you’re a submissive looking to take your dynamic to a deeper level, here are 8 ways you can help your dom feel comfortable as they lead the way.

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The Most Taboo Topic Of BDSM

Dominant Male Training, Dominatrix Training / By The BDSM Training Academy

The fact that W/we are able to openly participate in BDSM and Dominant/submissive power exchange relationships is a true privilege. One many enjoy but few realize how grateful W/we should all be to have the freedom and the rights to be able enjoy O/our kinks. For many these intensely powerful experiences give an individual an opportunity to finally let go of all their worries and

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Having Fun in a BDSM Relationship

Dominant Male Training, Dominatrix Training, female submissive training, Male Submissive Training / By The BDSM Training Academy

While the movies and books you might have seen demonstrating BDSM relationships make it seem like BDSM is all about pain, this is far from the case. Instead, you might want to look at the ways in which BDSM can be fun, even silly. For some couples that still want to play with each other instead of being serious all the time, you can still

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How to Keep Your BDSM Relationship Private

Dominant Male Training, Dominatrix Training, Female Submissive, Male Submissive Training / By The BDSM Training Academy

While the world is becoming more and more accustomed to seeing images of sex and all of its many flavors of fetish, the fact remains that BDSM is still not a sexual practice that is widely accepted. As a result, it is probably a priority for you to hide your lifestyle. At the same time, you may not want to completely go into hiding with

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Pitfalls of New BDSM Relationships: How to Avoid Them, Or Climb Back Out of Them

How To Respect And Follow Your Dominant’s Guidance In Their Absence In Kinky Situations

BDSM Lifestyle 101: Making Your Fantasy a Reality

Remembering Relationship in BDSM Dynamics

8 Ways to Help Your Dom Feel Comfortable Exploring BDSM More Deeply

The Most Taboo Topic Of BDSM

Having Fun in a BDSM Relationship

How to Keep Your BDSM Relationship Private

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