Bratty Ann

Bratty Ann has been in the Dominant/submissive lifestyle for 4 years serving as a slave, a pet, a submissive, and, of course, a brat. She has developed a deep passion for the lifestyle and for educating others on keeping it safe, sane, and consensual. Her favorite topics to educate on include domestic discipline, taming brats, and mental health in BDSM.

Pitfalls of New BDSM Relationships: How to Avoid Them, Or Climb Back Out of Them

Ask any veteran submissive tips on how to get started and you will hear three common themes: avoid submitting too soon, have limits, and don’t confine yourself to a label. Yet, veterans and newbies alike seem to take the do-not-do list and turn it into our things to-do list. In the heat and sexiness of scening, we end up on our knees handing our submission […]

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New Year Fresh Start Kinkster Style

We all hear vanilla people talking about their resolutions this time of year: lose weight, eat healthier, get more confidence, spend more time with family. But what about our kinky side. What resolutions do you have for yourself this year. Eat more pussy? Spend more time doing vanilla things a kinky way? Or are you rewriting your contracts from years past. Trying out new kinks

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The Art Of Asking For Help As A Submissive

female submissive training, Male Submissive Training / By Bratty Ann

Wow. Sitting here at a computer, writing for the Academy again. It feels: surreal. Amazing. And also completely terrifying. The words don’t come as easy as they once did, yet this is the very moment I have been fighting to get back to for the past year. See, this past year I was fighting a cancer which, up until a month or so ago, I

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BDSM Lifestyle 101: Making Your Fantasy a Reality

Dominant Male Training, Dominatrix Training, female submissive training, Male Submissive Training / By Bratty Ann

I will forever remember the day I realized the lifestyle I had only ever dreamed possible, was actually my reality. Way back in December 2014, I knelt before my Sir, lifted my hair into a ponytail, and felt the titanium of my collar lock around my neck. I was in Heaven. Pure bliss. And couldn’t believe my fantasies were now a reality–and how in love

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Separating Punishment and Funishment

Dominant Male Training, Dominatrix Training, female submissive training, Male Submissive Training / By Bratty Ann

Punishment and funishment are a dynamic duo of kinks to include in a dynamic, especially for a sadist-masochist combo. Punishment is the type of response a submissive wants to avoid having to experience, whereas funishment is role-play that is yearned for because of the pleasure and intensity it can bring. Basically, punishment a rule or protocol has been broken and there is real a correction

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Remembering Relationship in BDSM Dynamics

Dominant Male Training, Dominatrix Training, female submissive training, Male Submissive Training / By Bratty Ann

In my years in BDSM, I have been blessed to experience 5 relationship dynamics. These dynamics spanned both the vanilla and kink worlds. We knew each other at a basic level, at an intimate level, and, of course, at a kink level. We cared about more than just how well we did impact play together, or how great our Shibari looked. We cared about each

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Domestic Discipline: The Not So Talked About Dynamic

Dominant Male Training, Dominatrix Training, female submissive training, Male Submissive Training / By Bratty Ann

When you hear Domestic Discipline what do you picture? Perhaps it’s the image of Lucy laid across Ricky’s lap from the good ole’ airings of I Love Lucy. Or perhaps you think it is vanilla people’s way to get kinky. Or maybe you have no idea so to be sarcastic you just say discipline that happens domestically. All three of these answers are equally correct, and also wrong at the same time.

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Common Misconceptions Of Brats In BDSM

Dominant Male Training, Dominatrix Training, female submissive training, Male Submissive Training / By Bratty Ann

During my time in BDSM, and especially my time expressing my more bratty side, I have heard a lot of misconceptions about brats. A lot of people think we need more training, are just topping for the bottom, or even that we do not belong in BDSM. A lot of these myths come from a lack of understanding about the relationship between a Dominant and their brat, and the unique connection they have. The only way to allow for more understanding is to challenge these misconceptions which, lucky for you all, a brat like me loves doing.

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Bratty Ann

Pitfalls of New BDSM Relationships: How to Avoid Them, Or Climb Back Out of Them

New Year Fresh Start Kinkster Style

The Art Of Asking For Help As A Submissive

BDSM Lifestyle 101: Making Your Fantasy a Reality

Separating Punishment and Funishment

Remembering Relationship in BDSM Dynamics

Domestic Discipline: The Not So Talked About Dynamic

Common Misconceptions Of Brats In BDSM

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