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Submissive Question: Why Does My Commitment To My Dominant Fade

Understanding the Why Of Submission

Submissive Question I need help, i am in a long distance D/s relationship with my Mistress. I try to serve her obediently but my commitment fades. I only stay with my tasks for a short time and then stop doing it and forget about it. What can i do to reinforce my commitment and willpower to follow through all that my Mistress wants me to do? AR Master Bishop’s Opinion First know that this is a common feeling among submissives, so you are not the only one experiencing this. Most people kinky and vanilla struggle with prolonged commitment to a variety of desires in their lives. funny thing is, it has nothing to do with willpower or a lack of desire on your part. In…

Armbinding Your Submissive

Leather Arm Binder

Sometimes, you just need to switch things up and you need to make your slave feel all the more helpless than they already do when they are serving you in your dungeon. You’ve done the traditional bondage methods and you’ve begun a training program, but you need to test your slave even more. This is where armbinding can be a useful tool. Restrictive and immediate, your slave will be reminded in every moment that you are the one that holds the key to their freedom. Why Armbinding is Used Interestingly enough, armbinding is not something that Masters first came up with for their slaves. The original intention was to prevent a prisoner from switching up their handcuffs to the front when they were cuffed behind…

Acts Of Service

Slave Waiting For Instruction

I am a slave in a dedicated, long-term loving M/s relationship. I have been with my Master for 25 years. The first 18 as husband and wife, and then for the past 7 yrs. W/we have nurtured and grown our relationship into a consensual loving Master, slave relationship. Having come into the lifestyle from an existing loving relationship has provided some unique challenges but also some unique insights and perspectives. Recently I have been considering how my service seems to have two sides. The passive side – Here is where my obedience, trust, respect and submission reside. And, the active side – Here is where my acts of service can be expressed. For me, acts of service can feel more intimate than passive obedience and…

Submissive Question: How Do I Get My Partner To Be Into BDSM

Get Your Partner To Try BDSM

Loving the slave mini course. Really had changed my way of viewing the BDSM lifestyle. How do I get my husband to be more interested in it? I think he feels creepy. I’ve tried to get him to read more about it so he can see it’s not all dungeons and pain. He’s used handcuffs on me and he loves to spank! But I’m having a bit of trouble moving him from those positions. I really want to be dominated by him. I just think he feels silly cause he is very dominating out of the bedroom. Any suggestions would be great! Kelly, Melbourne ======================================== Master Bishop’s Opinion It’s so very common to ask how you can get a spouse or a partner into the…

BDSM Starts With You

Why Do You Like BDSM

Many of life’s frustrations can come from a lack of understanding of ourselves, our essential needs and denial of our deepest desires. We can spend a lifetime ignoring and/or resisting these signals but the frustration continues to build. We jump head first into activities that make us happy in hopes that it will eliminate the frustration, and create a better life. But the happiness is fleeting and the frustration becomes more intense once the high from the activity is over. Understanding your purpose will help to make Life easier but to uncover that you must first know exactly who you are, what you need and what it is you want. Taking the time to understand yourself is difficult and most people can not be bothered…

Submissive Question: Manipulative Dominant And I Am Hooked

I’m an ex Dom who’s now wanting to be a submissive, I`m seeing a Dom who’s turned out to be a manipulator, but I’m hooked and I’m finding it hard to break free from him because of the way I feel about him, and I’ve broken one of my rules, which is NEVER date anyone you work with. And when I make him mad he sulks for days and I don’t hear from him. I really need some advice please Michelle ========================= Master Bishop’s Opinion It sounds like you’re in quite the situation right now, and I have to say that your Dominant history could possibly help you get back out of it. First let me say that you should not beat yourself over breaking…

BDSM Question: How To Perform A Collaring Ceremony

Collaring A Female Slave

BDSM Question: What and how is a collaring ceremony performed? I have earned my collar so, yes I would like for it to be a big deal. Anonymous Master Bishop’s Opinion Much like a ring for a traditional vanilla wedding, the collar is a physical representation of the bond and commitment taken on by the Dominant and their submissive/slave. In my experience, the collaring of a slave is a highly special time, a milestone that has been reached after a long period of submissive/slave training including, gained expertise in certain submissive trades/skills, passing tests set before them with flying colors, overall service and obedience and their typical day to day attitude towards submission/slavery. It is not something that happens overnight, nor is it something that…

How to Deal with a Submissive in Subspace

When a submissive is having a good time, they can drop into a feeling that is often called subspace. This is where the body begins to release chemicals that can make a submissive feel euphoric, floaty and in a trance-like state. While this is a positive feeling for the submissive and it may also signal that the Dominant is doing something right, it is also a precarious position for the submissive to be in. Since it is sort of a detachment of your senses, as the body makes the submissive feel out of it, this is a space in which they can be hurt, even if they don’t realize it. Here are some main do’s and don’ts to keep in mind when this shift in…

Clips, Clamps And How To Play Safe

Clips And Clamps For Kinky Fun

[vc_row][vc_column][vc_column_text]Venturing into the world of BDSM is never a simple task when your sole experience comes from porn sites and videos. You need more than just pictures to guide you along; especially when it comes to the use of things like clamps and clips. In the wrong hands (pun intended), not only can clamps and clips be a not so fun experience, but they can also cause permanent damage to some very private parts. They can also lead to troubles with scarring and bruising where there should not be scarring and bruising. Even though these tools are meant to inflict a little harm, there’s a difference between injuring and pleasurable pain. Another large concern for those that don’t know much about the human body and…

How To Tell The Difference Between Fake And Real Dominants

Choosing the Dominant that you want to serve is a serious decision. One that is taken far too lightly but in fact should not be. Making yourself mentally and physically vulnerable to the wrong person can have terrible repercussions. A genuine Dominant can produce a supportive relationship that will allow a submissive to feel safe enough to be their true self thus allowing for more intense experiences. With that said, it only takes a submissive a very short period of time searching for a Dominant or weeding through the hundreds of horny email requests to realize of the many people claiming to be Dominant only a few truly are. Depending on who you speak with or what survey has been completed, the numbers can range…

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