Why Do You Like BDSM

BDSM Starts With You

Many of life’s frustrations can come from a lack of understanding of ourselves, our essential needs and denial of our deepest desires. We can spend a lifetime ignoring and/or resisting these signals but the frustration continues to build. We jump head first into activities that make us happy in hopes that it will eliminate the…

Collaring A Female Slave

BDSM Question: How To Perform A Collaring Ceremony

What and how is a collaring ceremony performed? I have earned my collar so, yes I would like for it to be a big deal. Anonymous Master Bishop’s Opinion Much like a ring for a traditional vanilla wedding, the collar is a physical representation of the bond and commitment taken on by the Dominant and…

How to Deal with a Submissive in Subspace

When a submissive is having a good time, they can drop into a feeling that is often called subspace. This is where the body begins to release chemicals that can make a submissive feel euphoric, floaty and in a trance-like state. While this is a positive feeling for the submissive and it may also signal…

How To Tell The Difference Between Fake And Real Dominants

Choosing the Dominant that you want to serve is a serious decision. One that is taken far too lightly but in fact should not be. Making yourself mentally and physically vulnerable to the wrong person can have terrible repercussions. A genuine Dominant can produce a supportive relationship that will allow a submissive to feel safe…

House Rules Consent

BDSM House Rules Consent

Despite what many people in the vanilla world believe, the most important principle and practice of BDSM is founded in consent. Without consent there is no BDSM, Domination, submission, and/or sadomasochism, it is abuse. So it is vital that consent is received before ever taking part in any form of BDSM. Learn more about the…