Dirk Hooper continues his exploration of protocols with part 2, drawing on over thirty years of experience to guide you in creating customized BDSM protocols that meet your relationship’s needs and desires.
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How to Build a New BDSM Dynamic After Trauma It’s an unfortunate fact in our lifestyle that many (if not most) Submissives will have at least one experience with a “Dom” that leaves a bad taste in their mouth. Fake Doms are a common threat lurking on the fringes of our community, and involvement with one can easily lead to a Submissive rethinking their role
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I love bondage and that’s the only thing that really gets me sexually in the mood with my mistress. She likes to bind me and fuck me but what do I do if my mistress wants something I can’t provide? Sincerely, LJ ============================ Mistress Brianne’s Opinion
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Vacations are something that everyone enjoys from time to time – a week or so to simply do nothing or to explore some new city or country. But when you’re a Dominant, can you even go on vacation when you’re in the middle of training a new slave? It seems like a bad idea to try to interrupt a slave’s training process, though you might
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Keeping a record of your life is nothing new. From the time youwere young, like many other people before you, you might have kept asecret diary into which you poured all of your dreams andaspirations. As you’ve grown older and you’re now the slave of aMaster or Mistress, you might want to use that diary tool again –this time as a slave journal. This written
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Accidents certainly happen in the world of BDSM – especially to newer players on the scene. But just because you will certainly have something go wrong at some point doesn’t mean that you need to simply sit back and wait for it to happen. You can take steps to help not only prevent problems, but also you can learn how to handle accidents and injuries
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I know it sounds shocking that a slave would resistbut it does happen. This is an important lesson for a Dominant andsubmissive to understand: Though the question of whether or not punishment is an effectiveway to deal with resistance to slave training, the answer of justhow to deal with slave training resistance is somewhat unclear.But what is clear is the idea that resistance to slave
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When Your Slave Wants to Do Something You Don’t Want to Do As a Dominant, you have a lot of different things you can do withyour slave. You can push them right up to their boundaries bylooking at what you’ve agreed to include in scenes as well asthings you’ve decided you both might want to try. But what happenswhen your slave wants to do something
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Humiliation is a favored way to begin to create the idea of controlin a Master and slave relationship, but that doesn’t mean itdoesn’t have its own specific ways to work well – and to not workwell for a relationship. By learning the techniques of humiliationas well as when to use it, you can use this as an effective slavetraining tool. The trick with humiliation is
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When you’re actively looking to train a slave as a part of yourlife, you need to be wary of ‘experts’ that speak of punishment asthe ultimate way to control a slave and to have them do what youask of them. Punishment has many other uses in your slave traininglife that you will want to consider. The problem with punishment and slave training is that it
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