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Armbinding Your Submissive

Leather Arm Binder

Sometimes, you just need to switch things up and you need to make your slave feel all the more helpless than they already do when they are serving you in your dungeon. You’ve done the traditional bondage methods and you’ve begun a training program, but you need to test your slave even more. This is where armbinding can be a useful tool. Restrictive and immediate, your slave will be reminded in every moment that you are the one that holds the key to their freedom. Why Armbinding is Used Interestingly enough, armbinding is not something that Masters first came up with for their slaves. The original intention was to prevent a prisoner from switching up their handcuffs to the front when they were cuffed behind…

Acts Of Service

Slave Waiting For Instruction

I am a slave in a dedicated, long-term loving M/s relationship. I have been with my Master for 25 years. The first 18 as husband and wife, and then for the past 7 yrs. W/we have nurtured and grown our relationship into a consensual loving Master, slave relationship. Having come into the lifestyle from an existing loving relationship has provided some unique challenges but also some unique insights and perspectives. Recently I have been considering how my service seems to have two sides. The passive side – Here is where my obedience, trust, respect and submission reside. And, the active side – Here is where my acts of service can be expressed. For me, acts of service can feel more intimate than passive obedience and…

BDSM Starts With You

Why Do You Like BDSM

Many of life’s frustrations can come from a lack of understanding of ourselves, our essential needs and denial of our deepest desires. We can spend a lifetime ignoring and/or resisting these signals but the frustration continues to build. We jump head first into activities that make us happy in hopes that it will eliminate the frustration, and create a better life. But the happiness is fleeting and the frustration becomes more intense once the high from the activity is over. Understanding your purpose will help to make Life easier but to uncover that you must first know exactly who you are, what you need and what it is you want. Taking the time to understand yourself is difficult and most people can not be bothered…

Submissive Question: Manipulative Dominant And I Am Hooked

I’m an ex Dom who’s now wanting to be a submissive, I`m seeing a Dom who’s turned out to be a manipulator, but I’m hooked and I’m finding it hard to break free from him because of the way I feel about him, and I’ve broken one of my rules, which is NEVER date anyone you work with. And when I make him mad he sulks for days and I don’t hear from him. I really need some advice please Michelle ========================= Master Bishop’s Opinion It sounds like you’re in quite the situation right now, and I have to say that your Dominant history could possibly help you get back out of it. First let me say that you should not beat yourself over breaking…

The Most Taboo Topic Of BDSM

Dominant Responsibilities In BDSM

The fact that W/we are able to openly participate in BDSM and Dominant/submissive power exchange relationships is a true privilege. One many enjoy but few realize how grateful W/we should all be to have the freedom and the rights to be able enjoy O/our kinks. For many these intensely powerful experiences give an individual an opportunity to finally let go of all their worries and for once quiet their constantly overworked mind. It a moment to be in the here and now and bask in all your deepest desires. To lift the mask one wears in everyday life and finally be at peace with ones true self. What I write here should not take away from that. Everyone should have the right and freedom to…

BDSM Question: How To Perform A Collaring Ceremony

Collaring A Female Slave

What and how is a collaring ceremony performed? I have earned my collar so, yes I would like for it to be a big deal. Anonymous Master Bishop’s Opinion Much like a ring for a traditional vanilla wedding, the collar is a physical representation of the bond and commitment taken on by the Dominant and their submissive/slave. In my experience, the collaring of a slave is a highly special time, a milestone that has been reached after a long period of submissive/slave training including, gained expertise in certain submissive trades/skills, passing tests set before them with flying colors, overall service and obedience and their typical day to day attitude towards submission/slavery. It is not something that happens overnight, nor is it something that should be…

Rewarding A Submissive For Good Behavior

Rewards Are For Good Submissives

Despite the commonly held belief that BDSM is essentially all about punishment, pain, whips, chains and anything that might cause severe agony, the exact opposite is more common place.  It can be hard to see past that first glimpse for many. If you dissect the definition Bondage, Discipline, Sado, Masochism; three of those words can be related to pain play, and even bondage can be used in a painful way depending on how it is applied. If you do a simple search for BDSM, many of the images you will find are submissives with strained faces being subjected to painful experiences. While much attention is focused on discipline and pain for dramatic effect, when it comes to actual submissive training rewards and positive reinforcement tend…

Punishment Basics – Why, When And How

Punishment time for slave

Most of us can recall a time when we did something wrong as a child and then were punished for it. We were probably made to sit in a corner or take a ‘time out.’ When a slave has done something wrong, as W/we have learned from childhood, sometimes punishments can be effective at correcting the behavior that is if the submissive wants the behavior changed. The point of the punishment is to link the inappropriate behavior with the feelings of the unpleasant punishment which will occur if the behavior is repeated. This allows people to learn (some learn more effectively from punishment than others) from their mistakes so they will remember to not let it happen again. To do this, the Master/Mistress can employ a…

How to Deal with a Submissive in Subspace

When a submissive is having a good time, they can drop into a feeling that is often called subspace. This is where the body begins to release chemicals that can make a submissive feel euphoric, floaty and in a trance-like state. While this is a positive feeling for the submissive and it may also signal that the Dominant is doing something right, it is also a precarious position for the submissive to be in. Since it is sort of a detachment of your senses, as the body makes the submissive feel out of it, this is a space in which they can be hurt, even if they don’t realize it. Here are some main do’s and don’ts to keep in mind when this shift in…

Clips, Clamps And How To Play Safe

Clips And Clamps For Kinky Fun

[vc_row][vc_column][vc_column_text]Venturing into the world of BDSM is never a simple task when your sole experience comes from porn sites and videos. You need more than just pictures to guide you along; especially when it comes to the use of things like clamps and clips. In the wrong hands (pun intended), not only can clamps and clips be a not so fun experience, but they can also cause permanent damage to some very private parts. They can also lead to troubles with scarring and bruising where there should not be scarring and bruising. Even though these tools are meant to inflict a little harm, there’s a difference between injuring and pleasurable pain. Another large concern for those that don’t know much about the human body and…

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