Why Do You Like BDSM

BDSM Starts With You

Many of life’s frustrations can come from a lack of understanding of ourselves, our essential needs and denial of our deepest desires. We can spend a lifetime ignoring and/or resisting these signals but the frustration continues to build. We jump head first into activities that make us happy in hopes that it will eliminate the…

Collaring A Female Slave

BDSM Question: How To Perform A Collaring Ceremony

What and how is a collaring ceremony performed? I have earned my collar so, yes I would like for it to be a big deal. Anonymous Master Bishop’s Opinion Much like a ring for a traditional vanilla wedding, the collar is a physical representation of the bond and commitment taken on by the Dominant and…

How to Deal with a Submissive in Subspace

When a submissive is having a good time, they can drop into a feeling that is often called subspace. This is where the body begins to release chemicals that can make a submissive feel euphoric, floaty and in a trance-like state. While this is a positive feeling for the submissive and it may also signal…