Having discussed the ups and downs of a long term Dominant/submissive relationship with Master Alan, I figured everybody could benefit from their fifteen years together. While a Dom/sub dynamic seems simple enough from the outside looking, in fact it can be even more complex and difficult to manage. However, the benefits and joys that one can experience if able to work through such difficult situations can prove to be truly euphoric. Many would agree well worth any struggle.
This is why I asked Master Alan to share with you his story about the winding and sometimes bumpy road He and his Alpha submissive took to get where they are now. Clearly this long journey can not be expressed in one article, so Master Alan will be sharing his story in multiple articles. I hope you enjoy and learn from his experience and knowledge.
I want to take a moment to clarify something. What I will be discussing here is my personal dynamic and beliefs. I personally feel that when you place a collar on a sub/slave (s/s) that it holds the same weight as a legal marriage. It is a commitment. I am not referring to a collar used during play for purposes of restraint. I am talking about when you collar a s/s as your property and take ownership. You should also understand that this lifestyle has many different aspects to it. What works for us, can be (and usually is), totally different from what works for others. There is no right or wrong dynamic, but what works for your situation. Our dynamic has evolved over the years to what it is today. I am sure that it will look totally different ten years from now.