Vacations are something that everyone enjoys from time to time – a week or so to simply do nothing or to explore some new city or country. But when you’re a Dominant, can you even go on vacation when you’re in the middle of training a new slave? It seems like a bad idea to try to interrupt a slave’s training process, though you might want a break on occasion. As with everything in BDSM, what you do is up to you, but if you’re worried that your new slave might suffer before you want to head to the beach for a while (without them), here’s what you need to keep in mind right now.
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Why Time Off is a Bad Idea
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When you’re in the middle of training a new slave, time off is not a good idea. Not only is the slave going to forget what you’ve taught them, but chances are good they will also stop acting like a slave. They are probably going to sit around and figure that they have nothing to worry about until you come home from your trip. The slave might even begin to talk badly of you as their Master or they might begin to think about all of the things that you’ve done wrong with their training. This doesn’t mean that you have done anything wrong, but an idle slave is one who might forget their place and begin to go back to the way they were before they first came to you.
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Why 24/7 Works the Best
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A Dominant who wants to train a high quality slave needs to be looking after their slaves at all hours of the day. This will help the slave to continue to learn and to be taught the finer nuances of their training. You will be able to stop bad behaviors before they become habits and you will be able to train in new ways and with new goals throughout the schedule. You can have a set schedule and your slave will know what to expect from you. They can begin to realize that being a slave doesn’t mean they have a day off. Even though you might be able to take a vacation in the future, the less time away from your slave in the beginning, the better outcome you will have with a new slave.
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The Realities of Life
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But let’s be honest – life doesn’t always work out the way you planned. You might need to take some time away to handle family business or some other emergency – and slave training might not be the most important thing on your mind. So, what you need to do is to create a clear set of guidelines for your slave to follow at all times – even when you aren’t going to be around. You will then want to check in with your slave at irregular intervals to see if they are keeping up with their training, even when you’re not there. You’re not always going to be perfect, but your slave needs to see that you want them to always be perfect for you when you’re training together.
Being a Dominant is a full time job, even if you’re not around your slave. The more you can setup your slave with the best habits and training from the start, the more likely they are to remember their lessons and to be the slave you want them to be. And in time, you will be able to go on a vacation and come back to an even more effective slave.
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