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There are so many reasons that I didn’t start with this list of ideas. The main reason is that I wanted to give you a broad overview of what goes into good protocols. The absolute last thing I wanted you to do is come here, grab a gob of these and march into a relationship disaster! I wanted you to know what protocols, rules and […]
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Waiting for the Wind In the world of BDSM, it’s common for submissives to wait around for a Dominant to come along and sweep them off their feet. They may have a vague idea of what they want in a Dominant, but they often don’t take the time to figure out what they want in life, in their submission, and in a relationship. They wait
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A Beginners Guide to 24/7 TPE in the Master/slave Dynamic First, let’s dispel some of the misconceptions around a Master/slave dynamic. It is not, as one might imagine, a dynamic that has one individual holding power over an unwilling individual (or individuals). In the context of kink and BDSM, a Master/slave dynamic is one in which an individual takes the role of the Dominant and
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Isn’t it amazing when you finally understand and discover your identity in the world of BDSM. Perhaps you’ve discovered you’re a Switch, a Brat tamer or a rope bunny? The list is pretty endless after all, and its super exciting and liberating! So how does this coincide with seeking a new dynamic? Well, being confident with our sexual identity is often what makes us ready
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As much fun as BDSM protocols are, they take dedication from both partners. Much of the value in protocols is that you have activities and rules that are going to be running in the submissive’s head and that’s a powerful way of reinforcing a submissive state of mind. In part four of this series, I’ll be discussing some less enjoyable aspects, most of which will
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Introduction to Brat Play Brat Play: A Playful Approach to BDSM Dynamics My Dominant and I cleared the living room, pushing furniture aside until the large, soft floral rug lay open between us. We took our positions on opposite sides, crouched and ready, our eyes locked in a playful yet competitive stare. The challenge hung thick in the air, unspoken but understood: I was determined
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Before we get going on implanting protocols, I want to make sure you read the two previous articles I wrote on the subject. In part one I looked at the definitions and origins of protocols, how they found their way from the military into the Old Guard BDSM players, what protocol levels are, and my own experiences with protocols. You can read the first part
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Possibly the most misunderstood fetish of all time Content warning ahead: We’re going to talk about pee, we’re going to talk about it a lot, and we’re going to learn new things together. If you’re reluctant to do so and this is too much information for you, maybe think about coming back another time? Piss play (AKA Watersports) is a whole little wing of fetishes
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When I first began my journey into BDSM, learning the technical skills took time, but once I knew what I wanted to learn, it was all a matter of time and practice to become a proficient practitioner. When I started, I found it more difficult to think up creative and enticing tasks for a submissive to keep them on their toes, strengthen the bond, and
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This article is partly dedicated to a young man that reached out to me in an inspiring display of vulnerability. The clear frustration and desperation in the tone of his message made me wonder what he had endured leading up to that point. He reached out to ask me how he can meaningfully engage with our local community. I’m admittedly awestruck by this question because
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