Venturing into the world of BDSM is never a simple task when your sole experience comes from porn sites and videos. You need more than just pictures to guide you along; especially when it comes to the use of things like clamps and clips. In the wrong hands (pun intended), not only can clamps and clips be a not so fun experience, but they can […]
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Choosing the Dominant that you want to serve is a serious decision. One that is taken far too lightly but in fact should not be. Making yourself mentally and physically vulnerable to the wrong person can have terrible repercussions. A genuine Dominant can produce a supportive relationship that will allow a submissive to feel safe enough to be their true self thus allowing for more
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During your time as a submissive, you will experience great highs and great lows. While you might have performed exceptionally at one point, you may have an off day and then feel like a failure. Or you might simply have a day when you feel as though you can’t please your Dominant, no matter how hard you try. Though these feelings are normal, they can be debilitating if you don’t work through them. Those who simply turn a day of failure into a label of ‘failure’ may never be able to pick themselves up again, and that signals the end of being a successful submissive and relationship.
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No matter how much you love any job, you are always at risk of burnout if you’re not careful. The more you throw yourself into a role, the more likely you are to give up a lot of energy, which may not always be easy to replenish. And if you’re a submissive, when you give up too much of your energy, that might lead to
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The first time you ever play with someone might be exciting and nerve-wracking at the same time. As with anything new you must be cautious and make your safety the utmost importance. Even if you know the other person, playing together for the first time means you need to be wary of what might happen and how it might happen. Here are a few do’s
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Despite what many people in the vanilla world believe, the most important principle and practice of BDSM is founded in consent. Without consent there is no BDSM, Domination, submission, and/or sadomasochism, it is abuse. So it is vital that consent is received before ever taking part in any form of BDSM. Learn more about the difference between BDSM and Abuse With that said, before anybody
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While being a submissive might be all that you’ve ever wanted in your bedroom life, or perhaps in your entire life, that doesn’t mean there aren’t complicated feelings. After all, much of society tells us that it’s many of our desires are wrong, that being submissive is weak, the ideas we have are sick and that you should always be ‘in charge’ of your own
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As a Dominant or Dominatrix, you have a special role in the development of your slave. You can utilize a variety of tools and training to encourage their full potential, and enable them to fully serve you and your needs. For some slaves, they require a certain sort of breaking down of their current state of mind. One way to inspire their feeling of being
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Adding bondage to a power exchange relationship increases the feelings of control and restriction between a Master/Mistress and slave. Not only are you entrusted with their safety, but you’re also given the power to determine when they will be released. No matter what the goal of your training program is, bondage will enable the slave to sink even more deeply into the realization that they
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