BDSM is meant to enhance and strengthen a healthy, loving relationship. In no way shape or form, would W/we ever support any form of abuse. It is wrong to physically or emotionally lash out at another person and cause that person any form of mental, emotional or physical harm or duress.
In the image below you will be able to see a list of the big differences that I believe separate BDSM from abuse. Have a look and let Me know what you think.
Choosing the Dominant that you want to serve is a serious decision. One that is taken far too lightly but in fact should not be. Making yourself mentally and physically vulnerable to the wrong person can have terrible repercussions. A genuine Dominant can produce a supportive relationship that will allow a submissive to feel safe enough to be their true self thus allowing for more intense experiences. In the image below you will be able to see a list of the big differences that I believe separate BDSM from abuse. Have a look and let Me know what you think.
There are so many reasons that I didn’t start with this list of ideas. The main reason is that I wanted to give you a broad overview of what goes into good protocols. The absolute last thing I wanted you to do is come here, grab a gob of these and march into a relationship disaster! I wanted you to know what protocols, rules and […]
BDSM Protocols: Part 5 – Basic Protocols and Personal Protocols Read More »
Waiting for the Wind In the world of BDSM, it’s common for submissives to wait around for a Dominant to come along and sweep them off their feet. They may have a vague idea of what they want in a Dominant, but they often don’t take the time to figure out what they want in life, in their submission, and in a relationship. They wait
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A Beginners Guide to 24/7 TPE in the Master/slave Dynamic First, let’s dispel some of the misconceptions around a Master/slave dynamic. It is not, as one might imagine, a dynamic that has one individual holding power over an unwilling individual (or individuals). In the context of kink and BDSM, a Master/slave dynamic is one in which an individual takes the role of the Dominant and
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Let my voice be the bridge that connects your deepest, most intimate desires to your submission. Let my voice slip into your mind—slow, strong, and hungry. This is your sanctuary. A sanctuary of surrender, where your desires don’t just bloom—they burn. Let me take you deeper, past the noise, past the lies you tell yourself about what you “should” want. Down where it’s raw. Where
I read Marquis de Sade when I was 13 years old. It wasn’t what I was looking for, but it was what I could find, at the time, about BDSM. Once I figured out what I was into, I wanted more information. I was ravenous for it. And so, I started with the Marquis. A few years later I found Anne Rice’s “Sleeping Beauty” series
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In the quiet of the room, the air thick with anticipation, I stand behind you, my hands gentle yet firm as I begin to wrap the rope around your body. This is our dance, our ritual, and tonight, I will guide you into a world of sensation, of freedom, of pure pleasure. Starting at your chest, the rope is cool and smooth against your skin.
The Rope’s Embrace Read More »
Isn’t it amazing when you finally understand and discover your identity in the world of BDSM. Perhaps you’ve discovered you’re a Switch, a Brat tamer or a rope bunny? The list is pretty endless after all, and its super exciting and liberating! So how does this coincide with seeking a new dynamic? Well, being confident with our sexual identity is often what makes us ready
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As much fun as BDSM protocols are, they take dedication from both partners. Much of the value in protocols is that you have activities and rules that are going to be running in the submissive’s head and that’s a powerful way of reinforcing a submissive state of mind. In part four of this series, I’ll be discussing some less enjoyable aspects, most of which will
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Introduction to Brat Play Brat Play: A Playful Approach to BDSM Dynamics My Dominant and I cleared the living room, pushing furniture aside until the large, soft floral rug lay open between us. We took our positions on opposite sides, crouched and ready, our eyes locked in a playful yet competitive stare. The challenge hung thick in the air, unspoken but understood: I was determined
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Before we get going on implanting protocols, I want to make sure you read the two previous articles I wrote on the subject. In part one I looked at the definitions and origins of protocols, how they found their way from the military into the Old Guard BDSM players, what protocol levels are, and my own experiences with protocols. You can read the first part
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