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The Difference Between BDSM And Abuse
I continually receive emails and comments at The BDSM Training Academy about how BDSM is a form of abuse. I find it very upsetting, especially when we try so hard to educate people on how to incorporate a safe, sane and consensual form of BDSM here at the Academy. BDSM is meant to enhance and strengthen a healthy, loving relationship.
The Difference Between Fake And Real Dominants
Choosing the Dominant that you want to serve is a serious decision. One that is taken far too lightly but in fact should not be. Making yourself mentally and physically vulnerable to the wrong person can have terrible repercussions. A genuine Dominant can produce a supportive relationship that will allow a submissive to feel safe enough to be their true self.
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Female Sub Story: Teaching A Slave To Spoon
A fantasy night with Master by slave d A fictional female submissive Dominant male erotic story (i do not fantasize about purposely displeasing Master in any way, however, as a slave-in-training, i recognize there are going to be times where this may unintentionally happen. This is a fantasy about one of those instances.) It is early evening, and Master has just finished the dinner i
The Alpha Dominant Enigma
In my last article, (Why Some Alphas Desire Submission) I discussed the recent research showing how everybody suffers from what is called “Mental Exhaustion.” It is this form of cognitive exhaustion that greatly reduces the number of decisions that can be made everyday by a single person. Once too many decisions have been made an individual’s ability to properly make further decisions and think critically
Why I Love The St. Andrew’s Cross
If you can’t tell, I love the St. Andrews Cross. he cross offers the potential for so much play. Bondage and restraint, Pain and impact play, Sensation and surprise…Whatever you desire the St. Andrew’s Cross is my favorite piece of dungeon furniture to play on.
The wood was cool against my cheek, flush with anticipation of what was to come and the heat of the first
Impact Play is More Than Spanking
While spanking is not required in BDSM nor does everyone love to engage in spanking, it is a popular kinky activity. Whether you love the control, the pain, or the intimacy of spanking, it’s worth exploring other avenues. Even if you don’t engage in anything other than your favorite bare-handed spanking, you may pick up some new tricks in the process.
Navigating BDSM After Abuse
It took me over a decade to stop blaming myself for choosing the man who would become my abuser. I had a million reasons in my mind for why my trauma was either my fault or illegitimate. Please learn from my experiences so you can better navigate BDSM after suffering abuse.
Good D/s Relationships Require Teamwork
Imagine your most erotic or deepest fantasy of Dominance and submission (D/s). What does it look like? How much control does the Dominant have over their submissive? What does the submissive allow or accept? Are the scenarios extremely rough or more playful? Are limits and boundaries stretched to the edge or is all play safe within your limits?
For many kinksters, the picture they have in
My Alpha Submission
Upon entering my world of submission, I thought I knew what I wanted and needed. The excitement of the BDSM scene and all the future possibilities and opportunities that lay before me. I thought I knew everything I needed to know about being a submissive, and what that role meant to me. When I first stepped into trying to be submissive this what I thought
Why Some Alphas Desire Submission
The one thing that tends to confuse most people about BDSM and Dominant/submissive relationships is the dynamic of the submissive alpha. I’m sure you know the one I am talking about, the individual who is a complete Dominating alpha in their entire life and yet has an enormous need to submit in their kinky life. So what is an alpha? Many would agree that an
I Have Top Energy But I’m Still a Submissive
No matter where you identify on the spectrum of Dominance and submissive (D/s), few people are all one or the other — even when being one or the other is part of your identity. In relationships and under the right circumstances, I’m fully a submissive. My natural inclination is to submit, yield, and do what I’m asked or told by a dominant partner. But there
My Intro To Bondage & The Mistakes Learned
When it comes to BDSM and our personal kinky journey we all start in the same place. The one with less experience than everyone else, the person who wants and craves everything but does not know anyone yet to fulfill those desires. I noticed I loved rope early on when I first witnessed someone being tied up in person. Its ok to look at images
Kinky Valentine’s Day E-cards
Are you having a hard time telling that special kinky person in your life how much you desire them on Valentine’s Day? Tired of the same old sweet sentiments that just don’t ring true for how your inner kinkster really feels. W/we thought W/we might try and help you express yourself this valentine’s day, so you can spend the rest of the day on more
The Power Of Mummification Within BDSM
With each step deeper into your desires, new experiences can be found that will heighten the senses, ignite the body and electrify the mind. While bondage is a common practice for many in the lifestyle, it is a truly diverse fetish and contains many different niches within it. One intensely consuming area of bondage that has left many people begging for more is mummification. However,
