It is one thing to flog a submissive, but it is another thing for a submissive to want and desire that flogging. To see them shake with excitement from just the idea. To see their body tense in anticipation and beg to have the session begin. To hear them moan with the slightest touch.
Then people say that this is cruel, humiliating and derogatory. How can that be when the submissive desires it more then I do. That is why I love when a submissive shows Me they want the flogging because then I know that they feel beautiful, empowered and appreciated. They get what they want and I hear what I desire, how is that bad?