Using Video in Your BDSM Scenes

Your slave has been doing all of the things they are supposed to do for you. They are acting appropriately, trying hard to please, and they have improved more than you thought they would. So how can you begin to push them even harder when they don’t have any more agreed upon limits to push? This is where a video camera might come in. Not only does having a camera in the room add a new sense of urgency and dedication to the scene, but it can also help you with your training of your slave while also making sure they remember their place in this partnership.

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Pushing That Edge
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The edge is the place where your slave becomes a bit uncomfortable and begins to doubt your purpose for them. This is the place where they begin to think they are not cut out for the job of being your slave or they might have personal issues which come up when certain scenes are introduced. Video cameras bring up all sorts of issues: body image, humiliation, trust, etc. By sitting down to talk with your slave, you will begin to find out what they might think of having a video camera in your scenes, what this might do to their self esteem, what their concerns are, and how they might limit this sort of scene. You will want to talk with them about adding video to the scenes, what this means, and how this will help them as a slave.

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How to Add Video to a Scene
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If you’ve gotten the go ahead from the slave to use video (you must have your slave permission first), it’s time to start using it to spice up and to enhance your training scenes. The first thing you will want to do is to choose something that challenges the slave (i.e. bondage, humiliation scenes, etc.) and then let the slave know that you will be taping this particular scene. They might find that knowing they are going to be videotaped actually causes them to work harder in the scene or they might find they focus even less. It all depends on the relationship you have and the scene you plan to do. You might also want to simply put the video camera up during each scene, but only tape things when you feel things need to be taped. However, don’t tell your slave this. Have them think you are taping their every move – you’d be surprised at how quickly a slave improves as a result.

You can even assign your slave a task, such as vacuuming the living room, or cleaning the kitchen/bathroom. By setting up the video camera to monitor them it can free up your time to do what you want. Meaning you don’t have to keep your eyes on them all the time. Instead you can review the tape later to make sure your slave performed the task up to your standards. Yet your slave will still feel as if you are looming over them as they perform the task.

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Watching the Videos Again
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But the real work with the videos happens later, even outside of the bedroom. Taking the tapes and sitting your slave down, you can watch these tapes and critique their performance. This will add a layer of humiliation to the scenes, even after the fact. In addition, you can instruct your slave on what you would have liked to have seen and you can begin to talk to them about what you wish to do with them in the future.

Hang onto these tapes and put them in a safe place, of course, but the fact that the slave doesn’t know what you will do with your tapes is something that will keep them on edge about your relationship and the way you work together. A responsible and respectable Dominant would never release these tapes ever!

As a Dominant, creating a video of your slave is a great way to ensure that you are always watching their every move, before and after the scenes. When you begin to use video in your training, you will also find that the slave works harder and that their training is much more efficient as a whole. After all, you have the proof of whether they have been working to improve – or not.

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2 thoughts on “Using Video in Your BDSM Scenes”

  1. hello to all
    i am new to this site,and haven’t expirience but like to tried,my boyfriend suggesting to try this and i like to do so,,,we haven’t done yet anything but we are planning..as a new in site should i ask to my master to use video cam for our up coming training..

    Yours
    smiley

  2. Hi smiley,

    Thanks for your question. I would not suggest having your sessions taped if you are just starting out. There are so many different things for you to learn and experience once you begin your sub training.

    Leave taping your sessions until you have a better understanding of yourself, your submission and your limits. Also don’t allow anybody to video tape you until they have proven that they will be responsible with such sensitive material.

    Especially when that material might contain content that you may find extremely upsetting because you did something that you never felt comfortable doing because since you are new, you never knew or understood what your limits were.

    Instead wait until you have an understanding of your limits, your role as a submissive and then allow taping a session to add to the excitement of any future sessions.

    Master Bishop

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