Illana Maidment

is an author, contributing journalist, and screenwriter, a sub, a little and a slave. In a previous life she stalked the halls of the most powerful boardrooms as an Institutional Banker. Since hanging up the Louboutins she has fallen in love with writing about love. She is know for her often dark, uniquely paced, contemporary fiction. You can find her on Instagram @illana_maidment_writes

Unleash their inner Dominant

A submissive girl’s guide to drawing out the Dominant in your partner

So, what do we do when we find ourselves out of sync with our partners? When we want to deepen our submission, or switch from a top to a bottom and our partners are not on the same page?

Being dominated is one of the most common fantasies, especially in people who identify as woman. The most common themes of sexual submission include bondage, spanking and consensual non-consent role plays. So, what happens when you decide you want these fantasies played out in real life?

While you can’t force the desire to dominate in another person, you can highlight how powerful they will feel by taking on that mantle so that they can make demands of and perform erotic activities with you. Here are some ideas of how to get started.

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Arousal from Aural in BDSM

Aural in BDSM

These days it’s not difficult to turn on the internet and get turned on. In the world of endless content, its not hard to get hard. As porn continues to transition in the age of only fans, and erotic literature rides the 50 shades wave, so too erotic audio has found its niche in rise of the podcast and audio book. What is erotic audio?

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BDSM In A Long Distance Relationship

Feel The Power Of BDSM In A Long Distance Relationship

How to stay connected to your Dominant and still feel the intensity of BDSM in your long distance relationship. My Dom lives in a land far, far away, his kingdom the centre of the world, locked away in a fortress defended by the castle guards of distance. Physicallitalty is such a large part of most relationships, and when that is removed, for whatever reason, it allows an opportunity to connect in an intellectual way. Necessity as they say is the mother of all invention, here are some of the things we do to keep stay connected.

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