BDSM is meant to enhance and strengthen a healthy, loving relationship. In no way shape or form, would W/we ever support any form of abuse. It is wrong to physically or emotionally lash out at another person and cause that person any form of mental, emotional or physical harm or duress.
In the image below you will be able to see a list of the big differences that I believe separate BDSM from abuse. Have a look and let Me know what you think.
Choosing the Dominant that you want to serve is a serious decision. One that is taken far too lightly but in fact should not be. Making yourself mentally and physically vulnerable to the wrong person can have terrible repercussions. A genuine Dominant can produce a supportive relationship that will allow a submissive to feel safe enough to be their true self thus allowing for more intense experiences. In the image below you will be able to see a list of the big differences that I believe separate BDSM from abuse. Have a look and let Me know what you think.
While some people like to play with BDSM in order to add a little spice to their bedroom activities, others take things more seriously. You might be one of those people who want to set up a strong power relationship between yourself and your slave – but how do you get started? When you’re serious about building a Master-slave relationship, you need to start off […]
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A Mistress’ work is never done, it seems. With all of the bad things your slave is doing, you might feel as though your job is becoming harder than their job. At the same time, you might feel as though you need to be harder on your slave than ever before, but the look in their eyes doesn’t seem to be as bright as it
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Watch The Sub Crawl Many BDSM relationships focus on the power exchange between theDominant partner and the submissive partner. And what better wayto showcase this power structure than with collar and leash play? One of the problems you might be having with this kind of play isthat it seems like something that has become cliche and silly.But the idea of one person possessing someone else
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Since Valentine’s day is coming I felt like helping everybodyexperience more love in their lives. Love with more of a kinkytwist I mean. Is that not what W/we are all searching for in someway or another to feel loved and appreciated with some kinkadded in to make you feel alive? I have some good news: * W/we have just added 5 brand new videos to
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Humiliation is a favored way to begin to create the idea of controlin a Master and slave relationship, but that doesn’t mean itdoesn’t have its own specific ways to work well – and to not workwell for a relationship. By learning the techniques of humiliationas well as when to use it, you can use this as an effective slavetraining tool. The trick with humiliation is
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Subspace is a highly individual experience that can vary significantly from one person to another, making it challenging to define precisely. It is a state that can be cultivated through training, but its subjective nature means that descriptions of it can differ widely. Some people describe it as a sense of floating or detachment, while others experience it as a deep sense of connection and
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Valentine’s Day is coming upon U/us. Whether you’re a romantic or a kinkster at heart this is a day of passion, pleasure and maybe even a little pain…if you’re lucky. If you’re looking for something nice to show your partner you care or just looking for something to show them you’re ready to heat things up in your play. Lady Scandalous has found that there
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How To Get The Most Out Of A Role Play Scene Role playing can be an amazing way to turn up the intensity of anysexual relationship, but even more so in a bdsm partnership. Whenyou add the element of role playing, you can further create a senseof authority and control in a scene. But there are good ways to dothis and bad ways to do
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I just wanted to take this time and wish everyone a happy new year. 09 is definitely going to be bring some changes but hopefully most of the changes will be for the better. I know that W/we at the BDSM training academy had a very tough year in 08, but W/we also got some new additions to the team. In the end everything worked
When you’re actively looking to train a slave as a part of yourlife, you need to be wary of ‘experts’ that speak of punishment asthe ultimate way to control a slave and to have them do what youask of them. Punishment has many other uses in your slave traininglife that you will want to consider. The problem with punishment and slave training is that it
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