Sensations that alter your slave will cause their mind to be more under your control than ever before.
When you continue to change the way that the slave expects to feel, you will continue to sharpen their mind and mold their existence to your desires.
While it might sound simple, even mundane, the introduction of ice to your play scenes will encourage them to be more under your control and more willing to submit to your desires, no matter how they feel.
The Dangers of Ice on the Skin
Before you head to your freezer to grab ice for your slave, you need to know that ice, while seemingly safe, is also something that can cause injury to sensitive areas of the body.
You will not want to hold ice onto parts of the body that have thinner skin, like the male and female genitalia. This includes the scrotum, penis head and shaft, the clitoris, vagina, labia or anus, because if you hold the ice too long in these areas it can actually cause a burn on the skin very quickly.
Instead, you will want to focus on the fear of the sensation as well as brief moments of cold. As your slave becomes accustomed to the feelings, they will be able to handle more time with the ice on their sensitive areas.
Always error on the side that less time in these areas is better. And never use dry ice on any part of the body as this can severely damage skin.
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Using Ice in Your Scenes
To add ice to your scenes, all you need to do is to make sure that your slave doesn’t know it’s coming – at least, not at first. Of course, as with all BDSM activities, ice play should have been agreed upon within your negotiations prior to the scene.
You might blindfold your slave, restrain them and tell them that you want them to stay as still and as quiet as they can.
Then begin to trace the ice around their nipples, their neck, their inner thighs, their bottom and slight touches over their genitals. This is going to be difficult for the slave, as they will not be able to stop from moving and moaning. Continue to move the ice around as it melts, leaving your slave slightly chilled until they are not moving or groaning from the sensation.
Using the ice on the palms of the hands or on the feet can also send out shrieks, which are quite delightful.
You can also test your slave by having them hold ice in their hands without letting it go during a scene. As you spank or flog them, they will not only be focusing on the ice in their hands, but also on the other sensations.
You can also have them count during this time to engage as many parts of their consciousness as possible, allowing them to be completely engaged in the moment and in your desires for them to act in a certain way.
Let Your Toys Help With Cold Play
Metal sex toys can be a lot of fun due to their cold smooth exterior. Their rigid structure can be truly unforgiving which some submissive thoroughly delight in.
But with just a bowl of cold water, this rigid toy can become ice cold to the touch. Creating a shockingly exciting sensation with each touch.
And with just a few moments in warm water the slave’s body can be jolted into a completely different experience. How you decide to keep them guessing on what you do next is up to you.
Whatever you do, do not put your metal toys in the freezer. Frozen metal will freeze together with moist surfaces, like your lips, tongue, vagina, anus, penis, etc.
Don’t believe me, just watch the movie A Christmas Story or lookup tongue on frozen pole on youtube.
If you want to do any form of temperature play with metal toys the key is to keep the temperature changes moderate. Avoid freezing and boiling.
Using Ice in Your Scenes
To add ice to your scenes, all you need to do is to make sure that your slave doesn’t know it’s coming – at least, not at first. Of course, as with all BDSM activities, ice play should have been agreed upon within your negotiations prior to the scene.
You might blindfold your slave, restrain them and tell them that you want them to stay as still and as quiet as they can.
Then begin to trace the ice around their nipples, their neck, their inner thighs, their bottom and slight touches over their genitals. This is going to be difficult for the slave, as they will not be able to stop from moving and moaning. Continue to move the ice around as it melts, leaving your slave slightly chilled until they are not moving or groaning from the sensation.
Using the ice on the palms of the hands or on the feet can also send out shrieks, which are quite delightful.
You can also test your slave by having them hold ice in their hands without letting it go during a scene. As you spank or flog them, they will not only be focusing on the ice in their hands, but also on the other sensations.
You can also have them count during this time to engage as many parts of their consciousness as possible, allowing them to be completely engaged in the moment and in your desires for them to act in a certain way.
Personal Ice Play for Slaves
Ice play can also become homework for your slave as they continue their training, even when you’re not around. You can tell them to hold a piece of ice between their legs for as long as possible, and then continue to practice until they are able to hold the ice in this area for a time period that you specify.
You might also want to tell the slave to create the ice cubes that you will use during your next play session as this will continue to create anticipation for the scene and it will make the slave be the one who is in control of their own torture and pleasure.
Ice can be a cheap and easy way to add more intensity to your training sessions. With a little practice and a lot of imagination, the slave will be completely under your command, and a little shivering never hurt anyone. Click here for more techniques on slave training.
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Master Bishop
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