BDSM is a very complicated and intensive subject with as ton activities to learn that can be applied in multiple ways in an infinite variety of lifestyle choices. There are is so much information that it can be overwhelming and intimidating for someone new to even get started. I know because I have been there myself. I’m going to let you in on a way […]
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Before You Start As a submissive, you have every right to refuse any task you do not want to take part in. You never have to do anything you are uncomfortable, and/or unsure about. Just because you are submissive does not mean you must do anything you don’t want to do. That includes this task! Your participation is always your choice and your decision. Know
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Before You Start As a submissive, you have every right to refuse any task you do not want to take part in. You never have to do anything you are uncomfortable, and/or unsure about. Just because you are submissive does not mean you must do anything you don’t want to do. That includes this task! Your participation is always your choice and your decision. Know
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Sometimes, you just need a break, don’t you? Change is, after all, a good way to get perspective, to learn about new things so that when you go back to what you know, you can be refreshed. However, BDSM is a different sort of practice. In order to have a strong BDSM relationship, you need to continue training and practicing the actions you decide to
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Davina’s morning like most mornings had been hectic. Jumping from one task to the next. Lately it felt like everyday all she was doing was trying to play catch up. The new applicant was supposed to be taking on some of the extra work Davina had been handling, but first Davina had to train her. The new assistant had to be able to perform her
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Most of us can recall a time when we did something wrong as a child and then were punished for it. We were probably made to sit in a corner or take a ‘time out.’
When a slave has done something wrong, as W/we have learned from childhood, sometimes punishments can be effective at correcting the behavior that is if the submissive wants the behavior changed.
The point of the punishment is to link the inappropriate behavior with the feelings of the unpleasant punishment which will occur if the behavior is repeated. This allows people to learn (some learn more effectively from punishment than others) from their mistakes so they will remember to not let it happen again.
To do this, the Master/Mistress can employ a number of mind controls that will cause the slave to rethink their behavior and reconsider their future actions. Before you can include any kind of punishment training into your slave training there are a few necessities:
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Subspace is a unique state that a submissive might experience during BDSM play, particularly when a submissive is experiencing a great deal of heightened sensations that can overwhelm the senses. To adapt to the heightened experience the body triggered by the release of certain chemicals in the brain, such as endorphins, serotonin, and dopamine. These chemicals are responsible for producing feelings of pleasure, happiness, and
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She used to struggle to pull herself out of bed for her old jobs, but since she started her new job, she came in early every day and begged to be allowed to stay late. But this was no ordinary office, and this was far from your typical job. While this job was not for everyone, it was what she had always desired and hoped
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When most subs think of submission, their minds tend to run wild with ideas of sexual service. A firm hand grabbing a full head of hair, causing a sub to go weak in the knees. Being eye to eye with their Dominant’s most precious appendage, the strongest urge to please their Dominant becomes the only thought in a sub’s mind. Sexual service in submission is
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This world can feel very lonely when you first discover your kinks. You look around at the people in your life and think, No one else could possibly understand this. If they saw what I think about, they’d leave. They’d hate me. They’d be disgusted. Family, friends, partners, even strangers online may have made comments that cut deep. Maybe they called people like you “perverted,”
Dom/sub Journal: Are You Alone? Read More »
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