Before You Start
As a submissive, you have every right to refuse any task you do not want to take part in. You never have to do anything you are uncomfortable, and/or unsure about. Just because you are submissive does not mean you must do anything you don’t want to do. That includes this task! Your participation is always your choice and your decision.
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As a submissive when you have finally chosen the Dominant that you wish to submit to, know that you will become their most cherished and prized possession. They should always want the best for you in life and will do whatever they can to make sure you get it.
When under your Dominant’s ownership, you will become their responsibility to ensure you are cherished as the valuable amazing person you are.
Knowing this, the question you need to ask yourself is, do you treat yourself with the same respect, appreciation and revere. Do you take care of yourself as the most important thing in your Dominant’s life?
Even if you don’t have a Dominant at the moment you need to realize one day you will and you need to show yourself the same love that your Dominant will. It is your responsibility to keep yourself, happy, healthy and safe until you are in the possession of the Dominant of your choosing.
Go to the largest mirror in your home. Standing directly in front of the mirror. Remove all your clothes and expose yourself. Here you stand at your most vulnerable, nude and exposed, nothing to hide behind.
Now, look at yourself!
See your beauty, your flaws, your strength, and your weakness. See yourself for who you are. Take in every inch of your skin, every curve, twist and bend of your body. Accept it all, every amazing part.
Spend the next 15 minutes just feeling the love, knowing you hold more value and position within your Dominant’s life than anything else. Nothing compares to you.
Continue to look at yourself from every angle, sideways, behind, on your knees and on your back.
Take a hand mirror and crouch down with your legs spread and feast on your genitals and asshole. Don’t feel embarrassed, or judge yourself…See yourself through your Dominant’s eyes.Your Dominant wants to own you all, every single inch of you. You need to love what they love, cherish what they cherish, care for what they care for.
You are submissive but you are more powerful and valued than all.
Now that you know and understand how loved and valued you are, what are you going to do to ensure you take care of your Future Dominant’s most prized possession?
By Master Bishop
The founder of the BDSM Training Academy. Master Bishop has been involved in the Dominant/submissive lifestyle for over 20 years. With a love for education both learning and teaching, Master Bishop has passed on his knowledge and experience to others entering into the BDSM lifestyle for over 15 years.
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