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The Difference Between BDSM And Abuse

I continually receive emails and comments at The BDSM Training Academy about how BDSM is a form of abuse. I find it very upsetting, especially when we try so hard to educate people on how to incorporate a safe, sane and consensual form of BDSM here at the Academy. BDSM is meant to enhance and strengthen a healthy, loving relationship.

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The Difference Between Fake And Real Dominants

Choosing the Dominant that you want to serve is a serious decision. One that is taken far too lightly but in fact should not be. Making yourself mentally and physically vulnerable to the wrong person can have terrible repercussions. A genuine Dominant can produce a supportive relationship that will allow a submissive to feel safe enough to be their true self.

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A Dominatrix House Call

By Nobody’s Angel As he had suggested, she parked the bright red Monte Carlo on the side street two blocks away.  She scanned the neighborhood, taking note of the run-down homes and shabby vehicles in the driveways.  Lifting the cover of her console, she removed and unlocked the pepper spray canister she kept there. Her 5″ stilettos tapped a staccato tune on the uneven slate

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Adding a Cage to Your Slave’s Life

Sometimes, your slave needs to more restriction, put in their place even more than you have done so already. But what is the best way to keep a slave from having the choice of being able to move around without bondage be limiting on the time a slave can be within it? A cage can be a great investment for a Mistress/Master who just wants

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Quieting A Submissive Mind

When submitting to a Dominant, many new submissives find that their mind is continuously racing and they find it hard to focus on their Dominant.  This can create feelings of inadequacy and despair as a new sub can begin to feel like they are doing something wrong or that they are not good enough to be submissive to their Dominant. You must understand that most

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Dom/Sub Journal: Is Safety A Priority

Whether you are Dominant or submissive, the safety or you and your partner should be one of your biggest concern, if not the biggest.  Making sure everything is consensual in your BDSM practices is just as important as safety, so let U/us not forget that. However, for this journal I wanted to focus on safety as I feel many people tend to become overwhelmed when

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Dom/me Question: What If Trust Is Broken By The Dominant

Question: What if trust is broken by the Master? How do you regain that broken trust? anonymous   Master Bishop’s Opinions The Master in a D/s relationship has an important job. They are tasked with the training and the care for their submissive. This role requires they be specific, clear, and consistent. It also requires that any agreements in place be followed exactly, so the

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Dom/me Question: Sub Is Disobedient To Be Disciplined

Question: I find myself in a very testing situation with my submissive. Our D/s relationship was born from an affair we had & has on the whole, been very fulfilling for us both. However, I`m finding that she regularly attempts to undermine me or she is disobedient to ensure that she is disciplined. We’ve always used spanking or flogging as a form of punishment but

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What A Dominant Needs From A Submissive

When you’re a Dominant, you’ll be the one who is going to tell the submissive what to do, when to do it, and how to do it. However those parts of your relationship might seem clearer than other parts. While the submissive might think they simply have to follow your orders, they need to do more for you than they may have expected at first.

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Sub Question: Not What He Said When We First Met

Unfortunately my Dom has ignored me for about a month, all the time saying nothing was wrong but when I confronted him he kind of dismissed me and doesn’t want to continue as he prefers to have several pets not just me, which is not what he said when we first met, leaving me upset and hurt. It`s bad enough dealing with this sort of

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So You Want To Be A Professional Dominatrix

Over the last year I have overheard, been apart of and seen conversations around one subject: How do I make money as a Dominatrix. As far as I know the Pro Domme industry has been a big demand for a very long time. There are many men and some women who will pay to have a woman fulfill their desires of being Dominated. What I

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Dom/me Question: Brand Spanking New To Being A Dominatrix

I am brand SPANKING (pun intended) new to this dominatrix thing. I fell absolutely in love with it as soon as I saw the welts left on my slave’s ass from our first spanking session! Can you give me an example of how a few sessions might go with you and your slave? How you start, what you do, how you talk, how you finish

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Turn a Workout Room into a Dungeon

If you look around your house right now, it might not look like it’s suitable for a slave and their Master or Mistress. Everything looks mundane and you might even think that your training is suffering as a result. Instead of thinking about how you can buy one of those gothic castles with the place to lock up your slave, think about your workout room.

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Dom/me Question: What Can I Do To Move Forward?

I have a quick question. I`ve been a closet Master as I call it, for 5 years. I finally came out and started joining the local scene. Now lately, I feel I regret that choice because all I`ve been is judged based in my methods of actually caring for my toys, my slaves…loving them after they do tasks for me. I`ve been judged based on

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