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The Difference Between BDSM And Abuse
I continually receive emails and comments at The BDSM Training Academy about how BDSM is a form of abuse. I find it very upsetting, especially when we try so hard to educate people on how to incorporate a safe, sane and consensual form of BDSM here at the Academy. BDSM is meant to enhance and strengthen a healthy, loving relationship.
The Difference Between Fake And Real Dominants
Choosing the Dominant that you want to serve is a serious decision. One that is taken far too lightly but in fact should not be. Making yourself mentally and physically vulnerable to the wrong person can have terrible repercussions. A genuine Dominant can produce a supportive relationship that will allow a submissive to feel safe enough to be their true self.
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How to Deal With Conflicting Emotions as a Submissive
While being a submissive might be all that you’ve ever wanted in your bedroom life, or perhaps in your entire life, that doesn’t mean there aren’t complicated feelings. After all, much of society tells us that it’s many of our desires are wrong, that being submissive is weak, the ideas we have are sick and that you should always be ‘in charge’ of your own
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You deserve to be spoiled and now you can Especially when it’s something you really want Now with our new Anonymous Gift Registry, getting the kinky gifts you have always wanted has never been easier. Why spend your hard earned money In just a few steps, you could get all the kinky toys you have always wanted to be delivered right to your doorstep for
The Do’s and Don’ts of Humiliation Training
As a Master or Mistress, your primary goal is to facilitate the growth of your slave. Training is a special agreement between two people (or more) that is based on domination and submission. While it can be exciting and fun to engage your sadism with another person, what is more important is nurturing and supporting their mental and physical well-being. You can’t ignore their feelings
A Submissive Dream Job
She used to struggle to pull herself out of bed for her old jobs, but since she started her new job, she came in early every day and begged to be allowed to stay late. But this was no ordinary office, and this was far from your typical job. While this job was not for everyone, it was what she had always desired and hoped
Bound And Exposed For Extreme Pleasure
The night started off like any other night with Master. The naked sub took her time in preparing a light dinner, making sure that all of the foods were cooked perfectly, and waited until her Master was seated before asking if she could pleasure him while he ate. “No,” he answered. “Not tonight, you need to eat and build your strength for what I have
The Purpose Of Humiliation Training
As a Dominant or Dominatrix, you have a special role in the development of your slave. You can utilize a variety of tools and training to encourage their full potential, and enable them to fully serve you and your needs. For some slaves, they require a certain sort of breaking down of their current state of mind. One way to inspire their feeling of being
Fun Bondage Games
Adding bondage to a power exchange relationship increases the feelings of control and restriction between a Master/Mistress and slave. Not only are you entrusted with their safety, but you’re also given the power to determine when they will be released. No matter what the goal of your training program is, bondage will enable the slave to sink even more deeply into the realization that they
Tonight Your Ass Is Mine
“Tonight is the night,” she whispered into his ear as she moved around the table. Her heels clicking loudly on the floor as each piercing step caused his breathing to quicken. She was slow, deliberate, and in control and he knew he was hers to command. They had been training together for a few months, and while she was pleased with his progress, it was
What Paddles Are Your Favorite?
W/we are constantly looking for new high quality products to help better enhance Y/your play sessions at the BDSM Toy Shop. The most important thing to U/us is having your opinion and feedback. W/we want to make sure the products W/we offer are what you really want and need. So W/we really need your feedback so that W/we can provide you with only the best
BDSM House Rules: Patience
One of the biggest and hardest lessons for anybody to learn in life is patience. Many submissives struggle with patience when it comes to their training and when it comes with themselves. So many want to know everything there is instantly and then become frustrated with themselves when they make mistakes. A very important skill for a submissive to follow is not being so hard
Dom/me Question: She Wants To Be Submissive, But Resists
Thank you for sending the information to me. But I am more dom than sub, while my partner is mainly a class A personality it’s difficult. Could you share some tips on how to get my partner (female) to submit? She wants to but does not play sub very well. Master Bishop’s Opinion When you’re already in a relationship with someone, and one person
BDSM House Rule: Gratitude
At the BDSM Training Academy this house rule applies to both Dominants and submissives. Submissives Submissives must be grateful that they are able to live the life that they chosen. The keyword being that they chose this life and therefore they must be grateful they are able to live those dreams, as many submissives never get to realize their desire, let alone be able
