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The Difference Between BDSM And Abuse
I continually receive emails and comments at The BDSM Training Academy about how BDSM is a form of abuse. I find it very upsetting, especially when we try so hard to educate people on how to incorporate a safe, sane and consensual form of BDSM here at the Academy. BDSM is meant to enhance and strengthen a healthy, loving relationship.
The Difference Between Fake And Real Dominants
Choosing the Dominant that you want to serve is a serious decision. One that is taken far too lightly but in fact should not be. Making yourself mentally and physically vulnerable to the wrong person can have terrible repercussions. A genuine Dominant can produce a supportive relationship that will allow a submissive to feel safe enough to be their true self.
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Clips, Clamps And How To Play Safe
Venturing into the world of BDSM is never a simple task when your sole experience comes from porn sites and videos. You need more than just pictures to guide you along; especially when it comes to the use of things like clamps and clips. In the wrong hands (pun intended), not only can clamps and clips be a not so fun experience, but they can
You Will Not Cum Without Permission Slave
“Present yourself, slave” Standing just inside the door way, he immediately began removing his clothes as quickly but as gracefully as possible. He knew she was watching his every move and he wanted to ensure everything he did was pleasing to her. Once naked, he clasped the collar around his neck, clipping the leash onto the D-ring. Coming to his knees he, making sure to
Adorn Your Submissive With Something Special
The Ornate Locking Steel O Collar Decorate your slave with an attractive and unique collar made of stainless steel. The front, which comes to a graceful point, is adorned with a useful D-ring, allowing you to attach a leash or other bondage and BDSM accessories. A latch in the back of the collar closes when you put a lock through it, effectively claiming ownership of
How To Tell The Difference Between Fake And Real Dominants
Choosing the Dominant that you want to serve is a serious decision. One that is taken far too lightly but in fact should not be. Making yourself mentally and physically vulnerable to the wrong person can have terrible repercussions. A genuine Dominant can produce a supportive relationship that will allow a submissive to feel safe enough to be their true self thus allowing for more
Feeling Like A Failure As A Submissive
During your time as a submissive you will experience great highs and great lows While you might have performed exceptionally at one point you may have an off day and then feel like a failure Or you might simply have a day when you feel as though you can t please your Dominant no matter how hard you try Though these feelings are normal they
How Not To Burnout As A Submissive
No matter how much you love any job, you are always at risk of burnout if you’re not careful. The more you throw yourself into a role, the more likely you are to give up a lot of energy, which may not always be easy to replenish. And if you’re a submissive, when you give up too much of your energy, that might lead to
Pain And Play
“What is that?” slave said, forgetting her place. “What is that?” Mistress glowered at her. “I’m sorry, Mistress. What is that, Mistress?” the slave said “Do you see the difference, slave?” “Yes, Mistress,” slave answered, sheepishly. The bondage horse in the middle of the dungeon was imposing. Its black surface seemed to capture the light in the room while the metal rings reflected all the
Orgasm Denial Games and Training Ideas
Your slave wants pleasure – we all do. As a Master or Mistress, you have an ideal opportunity to show your slave that orgasms are something that only you can allow. Not only does this encourage discipline in your slave, but it also allows you as the Dominant to fully have control over the sexual experience of your slave. You will show your slave that
Playing with Someone for the First Time
The first time you ever play with someone might be exciting and nerve-wracking at the same time. As with anything new you must be cautious and make your safety the utmost importance. Even if you know the other person, playing together for the first time means you need to be wary of what might happen and how it might happen. Here are a few do’s
Please, Sir May I Have More?
I was unable to focus the whole day in anticipation of this evening and what awaited me. My mind had been spinning as I stared longingly at the clock hoping that I could make time speed up. I had been dreaming of this for what seemed like my entire life and now the dream is about to become a reality. Finally, I looked up and
BDSM House Rules Consent
Despite what many people in the vanilla world believe, the most important principle and practice of BDSM is founded in consent. Without consent there is no BDSM, Domination, submission, and/or sadomasochism, it is abuse. So it is vital that consent is received before ever taking part in any form of BDSM. Learn more about the difference between BDSM and Abuse With that said, before anybody
Another Day In Service To Her Master
I am a slave to an amazing Master. i am fortunate to be living my chosen life in service 24/7 and have been on this journey for 6 years. Thank you Master… Short History: O/our history began 25 years ago, as Husband and wife. Then 6 years ago my Husband became my Master and i became His slave. The journey has so far been one
