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The Difference Between BDSM And Abuse
I continually receive emails and comments at The BDSM Training Academy about how BDSM is a form of abuse. I find it very upsetting, especially when we try so hard to educate people on how to incorporate a safe, sane and consensual form of BDSM here at the Academy. BDSM is meant to enhance and strengthen a healthy, loving relationship.
The Difference Between Fake And Real Dominants
Choosing the Dominant that you want to serve is a serious decision. One that is taken far too lightly but in fact should not be. Making yourself mentally and physically vulnerable to the wrong person can have terrible repercussions. A genuine Dominant can produce a supportive relationship that will allow a submissive to feel safe enough to be their true self.
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Submissive Question: Manipulative Dominant And I Am Hooked
I’m an ex Dom who’s now wanting to be a submissive, I`m seeing a Dom who’s turned out to be a manipulator, but I’m hooked and I’m finding it hard to break free from him because of the way I feel about him, and I’ve broken one of my rules, which is NEVER date anyone you work with. And when I make him mad he
Prepping For An Important Meeting
Davina’s morning like most mornings had been hectic. Jumping from one task to the next. Lately it felt like everyday all she was doing was trying to play catch up. The new applicant was supposed to be taking on some of the extra work Davina had been handling, but first Davina had to train her. The new assistant had to be able to perform her
Prepping For An Important Meeting: Part 2
Click Here To Go Back To The Beginning The new assistant shook her head vigorously, desperately screaming to overcome her mouth gag with a resounding “NOOO!” Which she repeated time and time again, to make sure Davina understood her desire to stay. Davina bent down grabbing her hair at the top of her head and lifting her head up so she could gaze deep into
The Most Taboo Topic Of BDSM
The fact that W/we are able to openly participate in BDSM and Dominant/submissive power exchange relationships is a true privilege. One many enjoy but few realize how grateful W/we should all be to have the freedom and the rights to be able enjoy O/our kinks. For many these intensely powerful experiences give an individual an opportunity to finally let go of all their worries and
BDSM Question: How To Perform A Collaring Ceremony
BDSM Question: What and how is a collaring ceremony performed? I have earned my collar so, yes I would like for it to be a big deal. Anonymous Sharing Is Caring Share on facebook Share on pinterest Share on twitter Share on reddit Share on tumblr Share on digg Share on skype Share on stumbleupon Share on pocket Share on whatsapp Master Bishop’s Opinion Much
We Are Here For You
I find myself sitting in front of my computer like many days but today is different. Today I find myself lost in thoughts of the past 14 years wondering where the time has gone. For the first time in a long time I find myself at a loss for words. To say that this past decade has been a rough time would be a true
Have Your Wishes Come True This Holiday
Oh that day when you see all the presents under the Christmas tree is fast approaching. All the possibilities of what might be hidden within all those beautifully wrapped packages as they sit patiently to be opened can be such a tease to a creatively kinky mind. Of course, W/we all want to give O/our loved ones the items they truly wished for. And there
Rewarding A Submissive For Good Behavior
Despite the commonly held belief that BDSM is essentially all about punishment pain whips chains and anything that might cause severe agony the exact opposite is more commonplace If you dissect the definitions of Bondage Discipline Sado and Masochism three of those words can be related to pain play and even bondage can be used in a painful way depending on how it is applied
Punishment Basics – Why, When And How
Most of us can recall a time when we did something wrong as a child and then were punished for it We were probably made to sit in a corner or take a time out
When a slave has done something wrong as W we have learned from childhood sometimes punishments can be effective at correcting the behavior that is if the submissive
Express Yourself This Halloween
Oh Halloween, the one day a year vanilla people around the world allow themselves to dress up and become the naughty person they truly want to be. Many kinky people dress up and join in all the naughty festivities. But for the most part the real naughty people, the true kinksters tend to get lost in the crowd. This year instead of dressing up for
How to Deal with a Submissive in Subspace
When a submissive is having a good time, they can drop into a feeling that is often called subspace. This is where the body begins to release chemicals that can make a submissive feel euphoric, floaty and in a trance-like state. While this is a positive feeling for the submissive and it may also signal that the Dominant is doing something right, it is also
Do You Know What Happens To Good Slaves?
He was more than ready for this particular night. In fact, he had spent much of the day planning all of his deliciously devious intentions for his sweet, innocent slave. He had smoothed the sheets on the bed so the bumps wouldn’t show. And he’d found a candle that burned with the scent of sandalwood. After so many weeks of hard training for his slave,