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The Difference Between BDSM And Abuse
I continually receive emails and comments at The BDSM Training Academy about how BDSM is a form of abuse. I find it very upsetting, especially when we try so hard to educate people on how to incorporate a safe, sane and consensual form of BDSM here at the Academy. BDSM is meant to enhance and strengthen a healthy, loving relationship.
The Difference Between Fake And Real Dominants
Choosing the Dominant that you want to serve is a serious decision. One that is taken far too lightly but in fact should not be. Making yourself mentally and physically vulnerable to the wrong person can have terrible repercussions. A genuine Dominant can produce a supportive relationship that will allow a submissive to feel safe enough to be their true self.
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Dom/me Question: What Can I Do To Move Forward?
I have a quick question. I`ve been a closet Master as I call it, for 5 years. I finally came out and started joining the local scene. Now lately, I feel I regret that choice because all I`ve been is judged based in my methods of actually caring for my toys, my slaves…loving them after they do tasks for me. I`ve been judged based on
Dom/me Question: My Sub Isn’t Very Good At Communicating
I have come to a very real, and potentially very bad place in my D/S relationship: We are both pretty new to the scene and to be expected I’m not very good at it, but my sub isn’t very good at communicating, what she wants/needs, so we are at a semi impasse. The most I know is, I’m doing something wrong and she isn’t feeling
Why Call Him Daddy?
I am one half of a relationship formed around the dynamic known as DaddyDom-LittleGirl (DDLG), and when I explain this to people the question I am inevitably asked is “But why call him Daddy”. This article is my response to every person who has ever asked me this question, and hopefully it will be able to assist others involved in the Caregiving paradigm, whether Adult
A Lil Kitten And Her Owner
By sub serenity i awake under my Owner’s bed, in my comfy kitten crate, curled up on my princess bed with my collar and bell tingling softly in the morning. Laying quietly until He calls me up to greet Him in bed, He opens the door allowing me freedom to hop up. Before He gets ready for the day, He always takes time to stroke
Make Your Own Bondage Belt
The problem with watching porn on the Internet and on videos is that you see all of this great BDSM gear that you can’t always find in stores. Or you might find something like a bondage belt that you absolutely adore, only to find it costs hundreds of dollars. Instead of looking at the screen longingly for your next BDSM toy, you might want to
The Reality of Fantasy
We all have them, those amazing sexual fantasies; the ones that may have first introduced us to the passions burning with in us, the desires that go beyond the typical sexual acts of the vanilla couple. The romantic, animalistic beautifully painfully and scary pictures painted in all those novels, the Victorian house maid, the pleasure slave, the kidnapped, bound and tortured and the 50 shades
Leading Your Submissive By Example
You are in control at all times, and you know that your slave is listening to you. But when you are new to being a Mistress or when you have certain slaves, there may be times when you feel as though you need to be angry and aggressive. You may feel as though you need to scream and curse in order to get what you
How To Nurture A Dominant Submissive Relationship
When you’re in a relationship that focuses on power exchange, it can seem like this happens in one direction: the submissive serves the Dominant, without questions. While this might be the fantasy and the energy you want to create in a scene, it is still just a FANTASY. In reality, there are two (or more) people who each have their own needs and their own
Submissive And Empowered
Accepting yourself for who you are and having the strength to live your life the way you choose too is the definition of empowerment. Despite that most people in the world think submission is a sign of weakness and that all submissives are abused and taken advantage of. It is truly sad that they can not see that empowerment is the true purpose of submissive
A Dominatrix Story: One Summer Night
By Mistress Ruth The summer heat hung heavy in the night air when I got a call from a new client. She sounded young over the phone. We spoke for some time about what she wanted and what I expected of her. I took down her address and got ready. As I drove up into the Hollywood Hills I wondered what she looked like. I
Dominant Question: My Submissive Lashes Out Afterwards
Submissive training actually caused more of an issue between my wife and I see she is a brat also for most of her life she was in full control and never had anyone to share with. So the issue we are having is that we are both dominant. And she wants me to be her MASTER but once play is over her dom side comes
So, You Want To Be A Dominant
Let’s face it, being a Master or a Mistress is pretty great. You get to train and control another person, and they are happy serving you. But when you’re first starting out as a Dominant, all of this power can be a bit challenging to manage. To make sure you’re heading in the direction of being a successful Master or Mistress, you need to keep
