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The Difference Between BDSM And Abuse

I continually receive emails and comments at The BDSM Training Academy about how BDSM is a form of abuse. I find it very upsetting, especially when we try so hard to educate people on how to incorporate a safe, sane and consensual form of BDSM here at the Academy. BDSM is meant to enhance and strengthen a healthy, loving relationship.

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The Difference Between Fake And Real Dominants

Choosing the Dominant that you want to serve is a serious decision. One that is taken far too lightly but in fact should not be. Making yourself mentally and physically vulnerable to the wrong person can have terrible repercussions. A genuine Dominant can produce a supportive relationship that will allow a submissive to feel safe enough to be their true self.

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Banned BDSM Inspired Music Video

  [vc_row][vc_column width=”1/4″][vc_facebook type=”button_count”][/vc_column][vc_column width=”1/4″][vc_googleplus annotation=”inline”][/vc_column][vc_column width=”1/4″][vc_tweetmeme type=”horizontal”][/vc_column][vc_column width=”1/4″][vc_pinterest][/vc_column][/vc_row] Here is an interview I got to have with the kinky little artist known as Navi that created this inspiring video.  Hear about the inspiration behind the music and video. What is the song about?  What was your inspiration for the song? Navi: “Picture Perfect” might just be the most painful and intense song I’ve written

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When *Life* changes.

When *Life* changes. Master is the lighthouse in my storm Change is good and necessary. It helps us to grow and learn and develop strengths and courage. But i must admit i do not respond to change very well. That is to say, i adjust but most often the adjustments take a couple of days. But sometimes these changes can feel more like a storm and

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The Meaning Behind A Slave Bracelet

[vc_row][vc_column width=”1/1″][vc_column_text]As her Dominant approaches, she slowly lowers herself down to her kneels. Bowing her head, she lowers her gaze to the floor just glimpsing the tips of his toes in freshly polished Italian leather shoes.  She can feel her face become warm and flush as her excitement rises in anticipation for her Dominant’s touch.[/vc_column_text][/vc_column][vc_column][vc_row_inner][vc_column_inner width=”1/4″][vc_facebook type=”button_count”][/vc_column_inner][vc_column_inner width=”1/4″][vc_googleplus annotation=”inline”][/vc_column_inner][vc_column_inner width=”1/4″][vc_tweetmeme type=”horizontal”][/vc_column_inner][vc_column_inner width=”1/4″][vc_pinterest][/vc_column_inner][/vc_row_inner][/vc_column][/vc_row][vc_row][vc_column width=”1/1″][vc_column_text]His normal embrace

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Dom/me Question: Finding The Transition To Master/Slave Difficult

[vc_row][vc_column width=”1/4″][vc_facebook type=”button_count”][/vc_column][vc_column width=”1/4″][vc_googleplus annotation=”inline”][/vc_column][vc_column width=”1/4″][vc_tweetmeme type=”horizontal”][/vc_column][vc_column width=”1/4″][vc_pinterest][/vc_column][/vc_row]I am Master J, my girlfriend and me have recently entered a BDSM relationship. We have been together over a year and are finding the transition difficult. My girlfriend/submissive has a tendency to flip out of character and finds it hard to always remain submissive. I myself have difficulty in knowing my responsibilities of the role and at

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How to Set Up a Medical Torture Scene

Torture is one word you can use with nearly any BDSM couple and see someone begin to squirm. But when you employ torture scenes that could actually be played out in real life, well, that’s all the better. Medical torture scenes are one of the most common ways to subdue a slave and to give a Master or Mistress the ultimate power in a scene.

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Fifty Shades Of Gorgeous

Related Posts BDSM Protocols: Part 1 – Introduction I feel like the least-likely guy on the Earth to w… Fifty Shades Of Grey Movie Review [vc_row][vc_column width=”1/4″][vc_facebook type=”… The Obsession with Spanking Scenes In Film “Spanking, Always Up For A Bit of Spanking!” …

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Fifty Shades Of Grey Movie Review

[vc_row][vc_column width=”1/4″][vc_facebook type=”button_count”][/vc_column][vc_column width=”1/4″][vc_googleplus annotation=”inline”][/vc_column][vc_column width=”1/4″][vc_tweetmeme type=”horizontal”][/vc_column][vc_column width=”1/4″][vc_pinterest][/vc_column][/vc_row] Spoiler Alert: I will be mentioning in this review a few scenes that may spoil any surprises you might experience from watching the movie. If you don’t want to have the movie spoiled for you than stop reading here. Before I continue with my review I must admit I have never read the books. However, I have

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BDSM Question: Can You Date In The BDSM Lifestyle?

BDSM Dating Question I have been told by many people that if you are looking to date that I should not be looking in the BDSM lifestyle Is this true Do people not date in BDSM

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Bondage Rope vs Bondage Tape

When you’re trying to think of ways to torment and to tie up your slave, you might want to realize that there are pluses and minuses to all of the possibilities. Though you might have been using things like scarves and cheap fuzzy cuffs to keep your slave in line, it’s not a bad idea to consider more specialized equipment. Not only is bondage tape

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Sub Question: How To Help Your Dominant Come Out Of Their Shell

My girlfriend and I are new to the lifestyle.  I know I am submissive and I would like my girlfriend to Dominate me more.  She says she likes being dominant and enjoys how I serve her.  I have talked to her about being nervous when dominating me and she says the problem is she just doesn’t know what to ask for. As the submissive, how

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Sit On My Face And Tell Me It’s Now Illegal

The United Kingdom has a population of 63 million people.  Of that population, 27 million purchased the book “Fifty Shades Of Grey”  A book where the two main characters take part in BDSM and other kinky activities involved in the lifestyle.  Lets really look at that, roughly 43% of the UK’s population enjoys, is interested in or is fascinated with BDSM. Not only is Fifty

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You Might Even Say The Gag Glows

  Beautiful lil submissive had a very shiny gag. And if you ever saw it you would even say it glows. All of the vanilla people used to laugh and call her names. They never let O/our sub join in any boring games. Then one foggy Fetish night Klaus came to say: “Sub with your gag so bright, won’t you lead My Kinky scene tonight?”

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