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The Difference Between BDSM And Abuse

I continually receive emails and comments at The BDSM Training Academy about how BDSM is a form of abuse. I find it very upsetting, especially when we try so hard to educate people on how to incorporate a safe, sane and consensual form of BDSM here at the Academy. BDSM is meant to enhance and strengthen a healthy, loving relationship.

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The Difference Between Fake And Real Dominants

Choosing the Dominant that you want to serve is a serious decision. One that is taken far too lightly but in fact should not be. Making yourself mentally and physically vulnerable to the wrong person can have terrible repercussions. A genuine Dominant can produce a supportive relationship that will allow a submissive to feel safe enough to be their true self.

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Show Me You Want A Flogging

It is one thing to flog a submissive, but it is another thing for a submissive to want and desire that flogging.  To see them shake with excitement from just the idea.  To see their body tense in anticipation and beg to have the session begin.  To hear them moan with the slightest touch. Then people say that this is cruel, humiliating and derogatory.  How

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Dom/sub Journal: Lead Or Follow?

Lead or Follow?  Dominant or submissive?  For many people this seems like such a silly question. If you are interested in BDSM then obviously you must know what you prefer.  However, this is one of the most complex questions within BDSM.  You must truly know yourself and your desires to understand your answer to this question.  Many people will say they are Dominant for years,

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Vet Office Roleplay Scene

When you’re ready to take your BDSM playtime to a new level, it’s time to change the scenery. Heading into the vet office allows you a lot of different options for a Master or Mistress and their slave, allowing the dominant to be in complete control of the ‘animal’ that is brought in for help. You can create a dark and naughty scene, or you

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Just A Bump In the Road

It has been a year and a half since Master and i began our Master/ slave, 24/7 Total Power Exchange relationship and the journey as i have previously written has been amazing and enlightening and a host of other positive and warm adjectives. But this isn’t just a journey for Master and I, it is a growth and path to a new dynamic with significant

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What If You Are Not Happy With Your Master/Mistress

If the unthinkable happens – you have a ‘bad’ Master/Mistress – what are you going to do? Though this is not talked about much, the truth is that you might be unfortunate to have a Dom/me who either doesn’t know what They are doing or They just don’t do what you and They agreed upon. And while your Dom/me might be having a good time

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Essentials to Being a Daddy Dominant

Being a Daddy Dominant might be fun, but it’s not always easy, especially when you’re first starting out. If you’re interested in dominating someone else, you need to know that they’re looking to you not only for guidance, but also for reassurance that you know what you’re doing. In order to make sure that you’re the best Dominant possible, you need to keep in mind

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Having Fun in a BDSM Relationship

While the movies and books you might have seen demonstrating BDSM relationships make it seem like BDSM is all about pain, this is far from the case. Instead, you might want to look at the ways in which BDSM can be fun, even silly. For some couples that still want to play with each other instead of being serious all the time, you can still

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The Essentials of Keeping Your Sex Toys Clean

If you’ve reached into your sex toy chest and wondered why things weren’t as fresh as they once were, chances are you need to do some spring sex toy cleaning. Sex toys are wonderful marvels to add to your BDSM or just your vanilla sex play, but they also get a little sloppy – if you’re using them right. To make sure things stay hygienic,

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Dom/sub Journal: Fantasy Vs Reality

Many Dominants and submissives fantasize for years about the lifestyle before ever getting a chance to experience it.  When they finally have a chance to get their first taste, the reality of what they experience tends to fall short of their fantasy.  Even experienced Doms and subs fantasize, but they also can find that fantasy tends to be better then reality. Don’t get Me wrong,

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Submissive Question: Can You Serve And Love Your Dominant?

I received this question a number of times, so I thought I should answer it.  Many submissives find themselves serving a Dominant that they respect, admire, and appreciate.  Eventually there comes a time after loyally serving when a submissive may develop feelings for the Dominant.  The question you may ask is: Is it ok to be in love with a Dominant? ========================================== Master Bishop’s Response

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The BDSM Training Academy On Facebook

When W/we first created the BDSM Training Academy, W/we created a facebook fanpage to accompany it.  After only a month, facebook monitors shut down the account.  They was nothing graphic on the fanpage, no nudity or sexual content of any kind.  Even though W/we were only providing educational content, O/our understanding was that the topic matter was offensive. Well, as much as it upset U/us,

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Dominatrix Question: Knowing What to Say to Your Slave

I have found a sub. I am female he is male. We have chatted on line for a long time and met once for a brief time, just to get acquainted. He wants to submit to me. To be my slave 24/7. I am thrilled and excited. We plan to meet in 3 days for him to submit. I am not sure what to say

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