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The Difference Between BDSM And Abuse
I continually receive emails and comments at The BDSM Training Academy about how BDSM is a form of abuse. I find it very upsetting, especially when we try so hard to educate people on how to incorporate a safe, sane and consensual form of BDSM here at the Academy. BDSM is meant to enhance and strengthen a healthy, loving relationship.
The Difference Between Fake And Real Dominants
Choosing the Dominant that you want to serve is a serious decision. One that is taken far too lightly but in fact should not be. Making yourself mentally and physically vulnerable to the wrong person can have terrible repercussions. A genuine Dominant can produce a supportive relationship that will allow a submissive to feel safe enough to be their true self.
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The Difference Between BDSM And Abuse
I continually receive emails and comments at The BDSM Training Academy about how BDSM is a form of abuse. I find it very upsetting especially when W/we try so hard to educate people on how to incorporate a safe, sane and consensual form of BDSM here at the Academy. BDSM is meant to enhance and strengthen a healthy, loving relationship. In no way shape or
Sub Question: What If I Can’t Provide What My Dom/me Wants?
I love bondage and that’s the only thing that really gets me sexually in the mood with my mistress. She likes to bind me and fuck me but what do I do if my mistress wants something I can’t provide? Sincerely, LJ ============================ Mistress Brianne’s Opinion Related Posts BDSM Protocols: Part 1 – Introduction I feel like the least-likely guy on the Earth to w…
Dom/sub Journal: What Is Your Purpose
A slave waiting patiently but feeling blind to their true purpose It is time to see W/we all need to feel like W/we have purpose in O/our lives. A person who does not have any sense of purpose can suffer from feelings of depression, stress, and anxiety. Their days overwhelm them despite much of the time they feel like they have nothing to do. They
Learning to Serve with your Heart — “Times i feel most in service”
The times when I feel most in service— Are not when i am following the rules, being obedient, or learning a new task or mastering a new protocol. Although absolutely vital to my submission and service and growth these are not the times i feel most in service. The times when i feel most in service —Are when i can take a stress from Master without
How To Plan A BDSM Scene
Many Dominants try to train submissives by simply doing whatever comes to mind or by having a basic outline of what they may want to do. Many experienced Dominants can get away with this because they have experienced much of the different training scenarios previously and know how they will be able to handle any changes they need to make on the fly. Where this
Wrestling and BDSM Training
Wrestling is a kink that many people often forget about. Its the perfect way to physically Dominate your submissive and let them know who is truly in charge. The Dom and sub can wrestle each other and the Dom gets the sub into a position they can not get out of that is when the real fun begins. You too can incorporate wrestling into your
Vulnerability and Dependence In BDSM Relationships
In every slave training experience there comes a time when the questions of vulnerability and dependence will need to be discussed. Slave training is not realistic on a 24/7 basis, so focusing on the way a slave feels when the Dominant is something that needs to be considered. Most people aren’t quite sure how to define the idea of vulnerability and dependence. For example, many
BDSM Question: My Submissive Likes A Plan
Question: Hello, I have been receiving your e-mails and have found them most informative. I’m an online Dominatrix myself. I have many boys under my control. My issue is I have one who I love dearly, but he likes plans. I go into it with a general idea and just flow with it. Do you have any suggestions for plotting and planning out a scene?
A Slave Worshiping Their Mistress
Its always a good idea to make sure your submissive is getting enough exercise in their life. So make sure you take them for regular walks. Here a question for you: Dominants, are you walking your subs regularly? submissives, do you enjoy being taken for walks with your collar and leash? Leave your answers in the comment section below Some people look at Dominant/submissive relationships
Becoming A Pet In BDSM
Those that want to explore the dominance and submission roles of BDSM might find that the Master/Mistress and slave roles just don’t appeal to them. Instead, they want to have a sense of giving over power, but in a less authoritarian way. If this sounds like something that might appeal to you, it can help for you to think about how you might be a
Guidance, Education, Knowledge and The Gift
Recently i was criticized for my efforts to continually seek out knowledge so that i can continue to grow and develop and blossom as a slave to my Master. And more specifically for my on-line slave training and my eagerness to share what i am learning. To that i say “How Sad” for those who believe they have no more left to learn. Fortunately i
Dominatrix Question: How Do I Get Inside My Boyfriends Head
I’m a 24-year-old girl with a 29-year-old boyfriend. We’ve been in a relationship for 5 years. I’ve always been used to being controlled, but now he wants me in charge. I’m not used to this and need a little advice, if you can help! Obviously I’ve been getting your emails, and they do help. I enjoy being worshiped and knowing my boyfriend’s happiness in in
