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The Difference Between BDSM And Abuse
I continually receive emails and comments at The BDSM Training Academy about how BDSM is a form of abuse. I find it very upsetting, especially when we try so hard to educate people on how to incorporate a safe, sane and consensual form of BDSM here at the Academy. BDSM is meant to enhance and strengthen a healthy, loving relationship.
The Difference Between Fake And Real Dominants
Choosing the Dominant that you want to serve is a serious decision. One that is taken far too lightly but in fact should not be. Making yourself mentally and physically vulnerable to the wrong person can have terrible repercussions. A genuine Dominant can produce a supportive relationship that will allow a submissive to feel safe enough to be their true self.
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What to Expect at a BDSM Event
Whether you’re in a BDSM relationship now or you simply want to get out and meet more of the BDSM community, there are plenty of events which can introduce you to others who share your same interests. By getting out into the community, you can not only meet other slaves and Masters and Mistresses, but you can also begin to learn more about what you
Naughty Or Nice? What Say You?
When it came to Christmas growing you never had to ask whether I was going to be naughty or nice. Being naughty meant a lump of coal in my stocking instead of presents packed with care. So of course I would be on My best behavior, especially with the big guy checking his list twice. Now that I am a little older, perhaps a little
Dom/me Question: How To Deal With A Submissive That Is Being Difficult
Dom/me Question: Being new to the Dom side what are the best ways to control my sub/switch, when she tries to be difficult and bitchy and challenges me? Thanks Todd ======================== Master Bishop’s Opinion: This is a question that comes up again and again, so know that you’re not alone in your frustration. I remember when I was first starting out and I had a
Need Some Festive Toys For Your Christmas Party
Christmas parties are starting to fill up everybody’s calendar. While these festivities are always fun, the hardest part tends to be figuring our what to wear that reveals your personality while also staying within the festive theme. Here are just a few ideas to help you out: XXXmas Cane This is the naughtiest Christmas cane that the elves in the North Pole make each
Dom/sub Journal: The Importance Of Patience In Submissive Training
One of the most important characteristics for any Dominant or submissive to have is patience. The dictionary definition of patience is the ability to accept and/or tolerate trouble or suffering without becoming angry. While patience is crucial in many aspects of life it is even more important within submissive training. Losing your temper or becoming angry because things are not going the way you want
Christmas Shopping For Kinksters
December 25th approaches faster then most people realize and finding a gift that your partner will absolutely love becomes more difficult every year. It’s always gives you such a good feeling to watch your partner unwrap their present only to see their jaw drop and eyes widen in absolute excitement when they realize what an amazing present you gave them. What type of present can
Need Ideas for Getting Your Sub’s Mind into a Submissive Space?
When it comes to getting your sub in the mood, it would be so much easier if subs were always perfect…but this isn’t realistic. Sometimes subs just aren’t ready for a session, even if they want to be. Your job as the dominant person in the relationship is to make sure your sub is ready to serve you and to be submissive to you when
Oh Halloween
Oh Halloween, the time of year where everybody in North America dresses a little more risque, lowers their inhibitions and accepts many of the taboos in the world. If you ask Me, clearly this is a sign that many people truly have a desire for the naughty things in life. While they try to ignore it for most of the year, they need at least
Preparing myself For Master
Preparing myself for Master is like preparing a special meal. The time and attention taken is as focused and planned as a 5 course meal. Allow me to share the steps i take to prepare myself for Master. The Recipe Step one: Choose the mood or theme for the meal i believe a special meal should have a theme. Usually the theme is centered on
Keep Your Submissive On Their Toes
You might be a person who likes control – of course you do. You want your slave to do what you want them to do when you want them to do it. In order to stay completely in control, you might even plan out your scenes in great detail so as to ensure your slave is always being challenged and trained. But what about doing
Test Your Submissive By Shaving Them
Trust is one of the tenets of a Master-slave relationship. If your slave doesn’t trust you, then the relationship will fizzle out and die. Often in training, you will create scenarios in which your slave’s trust is tested and tested again. Sometimes, it can be challenging to continuously find ways to test your slave. A new way to test the trust of your slave is
Opera Gloves in Your BDSM Scene
When you go to see a play, you might notice that the props can often make an ordinary scene one that is memorable. The same thing can be said for BDSM scenes. Though you might have a powerful voice and a strong presence, there’s something more exciting about a Mistress or Master that pulls out a prop and begins to throw it around at a
