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The Difference Between BDSM And Abuse
I continually receive emails and comments at The BDSM Training Academy about how BDSM is a form of abuse. I find it very upsetting, especially when we try so hard to educate people on how to incorporate a safe, sane and consensual form of BDSM here at the Academy. BDSM is meant to enhance and strengthen a healthy, loving relationship.
The Difference Between Fake And Real Dominants
Choosing the Dominant that you want to serve is a serious decision. One that is taken far too lightly but in fact should not be. Making yourself mentally and physically vulnerable to the wrong person can have terrible repercussions. A genuine Dominant can produce a supportive relationship that will allow a submissive to feel safe enough to be their true self.
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The Journey to a Semi-Formal Dinner Event:
I’m not sure how the fantasy came to be. Perhaps it was something i read in one of my erotic novels or a scene in an old Victorian Romance Drama put to film. But for me the mere thought and vision of serving a thoughtfully prepare meal to a person i am in-service to, or to be servant to guests my owner has invited to
The True Beauty Of Submission
So many people view BDSM and Dom/sub relationships to be these dark evil lifestyle choices, that strips one person of all their power, choice and freedoms. This in fact could not be further from the truth. I believe the problem might be that many people view these images through their own eyes. They assume that a person must be under severe duress to do any
Kink, I Love You
Wishing all of you a Happy Valentine’s Day. Today is the day you can share your kink with that special someone. So unleash your inhibitions and show your partner you care through your kinks. Much Love And Kink On! Related Posts BDSM Protocols: Part 1 – Introduction I feel like the least-likely guy on the Earth to w… How To Respect And Follow Your Dominant’s
Dom/me Question: What To Do If Your Sub Has Done Nothing Wrong
I am rather new to the BDSM lifestyle, and would like some advice on how to start a scene? i.e. how do you work up to the spanking/bondage etc. if your slave has done nothing wrong? many thanks ~L ====================== Master Bishop’s Opinion First of all, it’s a great idea to ask about this, especially since you’re in the beginning of your new lifestyle. When
The Intensity Of Submission
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How To Take Proper Care Of Your Dom
If this is not the top concern I hear from submissives, then it’s at least in the top three. your Dominant spends a lot of time, and energy protecting and caring for you. How does a submissive go about doing the same in return? Svana took the time to really express how she feels about taking care of her Dom. It is beautifully written and
Can The Mundance Become Exciting?
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The Joy Of Being Submissive
Submissives are thought of as weak followers that are not capable of taking care of themselves by the general public. This could not be further from the truth. Most submissives are highly intelligent, successful individuals who just want to experience the true freedom of quieting their mind. To observe the joy of being vulnerable and letting go of all their worries and insecurities. Y/you see
Slave Service Dinner
If you are looking for have a formal submissive service dinner, then you should have a look at the formal instructions sub-kathleen wrote out for submissives who were looking to serve at her latest Service Etiquette Dinner. Putting on an evening like this takes a lot of preparation, hard work and attention to detail. Every submissive must be willing to pull their fair share of
Dom/sub Journal: Do you Dare?
Do you dare to be your true self? Do you dare to celebrate your desires? Despite society accepting many different sexual lifestyles, BDSM is still considered an offensive and deplorable lifestyle choice. This does not mean you should go out and reveal your desires to the public, as this can have serious consequences with your professional career, family and friends. Each individual must make that
In The Closet About BDSM
In a day and age when acceptance of many different lifestyle choices has grown, BDSM is still looked down upon. Jobs can be lost, individuals can be shunned by coworkers, even friends and family members can disappear once they find out that your interests have strayed into BDSM. This is why one of the worst things you can do is publicly out someone in the
Dom/me Question: My Strong Willed Wife Wants To Be Submissive
Can you give me any direction in becoming a better dominant in my relationship? My wife and I for years have talked about a D/s relationship, but have been unsuccessful. She has come out and told me that she wants to be submissive, however, she is a very strong willed, dominant person herself. Can I learn to be more dominant and how do I go
