BDSM is meant to enhance and strengthen a healthy, loving relationship. In no way shape or form, would W/we ever support any form of abuse. It is wrong to physically or emotionally lash out at another person and cause that person any form of mental, emotional or physical harm or duress.
In the image below you will be able to see a list of the big differences that I believe separate BDSM from abuse. Have a look and let Me know what you think.
Choosing the Dominant that you want to serve is a serious decision. One that is taken far too lightly but in fact should not be. Making yourself mentally and physically vulnerable to the wrong person can have terrible repercussions. A genuine Dominant can produce a supportive relationship that will allow a submissive to feel safe enough to be their true self thus allowing for more intense experiences. In the image below you will be able to see a list of the big differences that I believe separate BDSM from abuse. Have a look and let Me know what you think.
One of the biggest and hardest lessons for anybody to learn in life is patience. Many submissives struggle with patience when it comes to their training and when it comes with themselves. So many want to know everything there is instantly and then become frustrated with themselves when they make mistakes. A very important skill for a submissive to follow is not being so hard […]
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Thank you for sending the information to me. But I am more dom than sub, while my partner is mainly a class A personality it’s difficult. Could you share some tips on how to get my partner (female) to submit? She wants to but does not play sub very well. Master Bishop’s Opinion When you’re already in a relationship with someone, and one person
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At the BDSM Training Academy this house rule applies to both Dominants and submissives. Submissives Submissives must be grateful that they are able to live the life that they chosen. The keyword being that they chose this life and therefore they must be grateful they are able to live those dreams, as many submissives never get to realize their desire, let alone be able
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When most subs think of submission, their minds tend to run wild with ideas of sexual service. A firm hand grabbing a full head of hair, causing a sub to go weak in the knees. Being eye to eye with their Dominant’s most precious appendage, the strongest urge to please their Dominant becomes the only thought in a sub’s mind. Sexual service in submission is
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By Nobody’s Angel As he had suggested, she parked the bright red Monte Carlo on the side street two blocks away. She scanned the neighborhood, taking note of the run-down homes and shabby vehicles in the driveways. Lifting the cover of her console, she removed and unlocked the pepper spray canister she kept there. Her 5″ stilettos tapped a staccato tune on the uneven slate
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Sometimes, your slave needs to more restriction, put in their place even more than you have done so already. But what is the best way to keep a slave from having the choice of being able to move around without bondage be limiting on the time a slave can be within it? A cage can be a great investment for a Mistress/Master who just wants
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When submitting to a Dominant, many new submissives find that their mind is continuously racing and they find it hard to focus on their Dominant. This can create feelings of inadequacy and despair as a new sub can begin to feel like they are doing something wrong or that they are not good enough to be submissive to their Dominant. You must understand that most
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Whether you are Dominant or submissive, the safety or you and your partner should be one of your biggest concern, if not the biggest. Making sure everything is consensual in your BDSM practices is just as important as safety, so let U/us not forget that. However, for this journal I wanted to focus on safety as I feel many people tend to become overwhelmed when
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Question: What if trust is broken by the Master? How do you regain that broken trust? anonymous Master Bishop’s Opinions The Master in a D/s relationship has an important job. They are tasked with the training and the care for their submissive. This role requires they be specific, clear, and consistent. It also requires that any agreements in place be followed exactly, so the
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Question: I find myself in a very testing situation with my submissive. Our D/s relationship was born from an affair we had & has on the whole, been very fulfilling for us both. However, I`m finding that she regularly attempts to undermine me or she is disobedient to ensure that she is disciplined. We’ve always used spanking or flogging as a form of punishment but
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