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The Difference Between BDSM And Abuse
I continually receive emails and comments at The BDSM Training Academy about how BDSM is a form of abuse. I find it very upsetting, especially when we try so hard to educate people on how to incorporate a safe, sane and consensual form of BDSM here at the Academy. BDSM is meant to enhance and strengthen a healthy, loving relationship.
The Difference Between Fake And Real Dominants
Choosing the Dominant that you want to serve is a serious decision. One that is taken far too lightly but in fact should not be. Making yourself mentally and physically vulnerable to the wrong person can have terrible repercussions. A genuine Dominant can produce a supportive relationship that will allow a submissive to feel safe enough to be their true self.
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Why i serve
(A journal entry by sub-kathleen) Recently events have caused me to reflect on this amazing journey i am sharing with my Master. How it began and where we are today and some of the Whys… i recall beginning with the conversation… Telling my husband of 18 years that i had these desires…Then exploring and learning about the many intricacies of the BDSM lifestyle and more
Dom/me Question: I Hurt Him, How Do I Not Do That Again?
Dom/me Question: My boyfriend and I just recently started dating though we’ve been best friends for almost four years. He loves being dominated and is a masochist. He knows a lot about BDSM and loves the sub aspect of it. I’m very new to being dom and would love to know a few things. Talking to him about the things he likes has been helping
When Master Struggled, i Learned
i am a slave devoted to the loving care, happiness and desires of my Master. But recently it was beginning to feel as if i had no tools, no training, no clue or understanding about how to help that one most important person in my life, my Master. It is amazing how unbalanced you can feel when the person who takes care of all your
Sub Question: Is Everything About Pleasing The Dominant?
Everything I read is about pleasing the Dominant. Is there ever a time when attention is focused on the submissive’s pleasure? Or is a submissive’s life just about serving and pleasing the Dominant for the rest of their life to never receive pleasure again? Anonymous =========================== Master Bishop’s Opinion Reading about what happens in a BDSM relationship and actually being in one are two
How To Make Up For A Mistake As A Submissive
Though you may try to be the best submissive you can be, there will be times when you fail. There will be times when you let your Master down and they are displeased with you. While you will hopefully not be trying to make your Master mad at you, when you do disappoint them, you can use this time as a learning opportunity, allowing you
The Power Of A Master’s Voice
Though many slave training sites will have you believe that a Master’s job is merely to use a whip to get their submissive to do what they want, this is not the entire story. Instead, a Master can use their voice and their tone to completely control and manage the behaviors of a slave, allowing them to spend less energy and less time on training
Fifty Shades Of Grey Trailer
Here is the first trailer from the upcoming movie “Fifty Shades Of Grey” There has been a lot of controversy surrounding the books in regards to how they don’t represent an accurate or healthy depiction of the BDSM lifestyle. Still many people remain curious to see how the movies will translate to the big screen. Have a look at the trailer and tell Me what
Is It Coincidence?
I think this was very much on purpose. To listen one must be silent, both truly important skills for a submissive to master. What do you think? Master Bishop Related Posts Creating Boundaries From Scratch My upbringing didn’t prepare me for the concept of boundaries. Instead, I learned that privacy was seen as a negative and equated to secrecy. I also learned that self-sacrifice
Sub Question: How Do I Beg/Plead Better
Hi I was wondering if you could give me some useful tips on how to plead/beg better, I am OK But I feel I could do much better, I know submissiveness comes from the heart and it does with me, but there is always room for improvement, one never stops learning. Anonymous ============================== Master Bishop’s Opinion: When it comes to begging and pleading, there are
Why Speaking Sweetly Can Make Your Sub Cringe
Your sub, by now, knows about your mean voice and it probably makes him cringe. He doesn’t know what it might be saying, but he knows he’s in for something terrible. When you start to create a long-term BDSM relationship, it’s easy to fall into patterns that work for you. And when you’re training your slave, being mean is often a great way to make
Domination Of An Alpha Submissive
Having discussed the ups and downs of a long term Dominant/submissive relationship with Master Alan, I figured everybody could benefit from their fifteen years together. While a Dom/sub dynamic seems simple enough from the outside looking, in fact it can be even more complex and difficult to manage. However, the benefits and joys that one can experience if able to work through such difficult situations
All About Ass Worship
For some BDSM couples, it’s all about the ass. And why shouldn’t it be? Round and ripe for all sorts of play, this area of the body can be erogenous as much as it can be a target for punishment. In the practice of ass worship, you can begin to focus on your partner’s ass or you can have your ass worshipped, depending on your