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The Difference Between BDSM And Abuse
I continually receive emails and comments at The BDSM Training Academy about how BDSM is a form of abuse. I find it very upsetting, especially when we try so hard to educate people on how to incorporate a safe, sane and consensual form of BDSM here at the Academy. BDSM is meant to enhance and strengthen a healthy, loving relationship.
The Difference Between Fake And Real Dominants
Choosing the Dominant that you want to serve is a serious decision. One that is taken far too lightly but in fact should not be. Making yourself mentally and physically vulnerable to the wrong person can have terrible repercussions. A genuine Dominant can produce a supportive relationship that will allow a submissive to feel safe enough to be their true self.
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The Importance of Keeping a Slave Training Journal
Keeping a record of your life is nothing new. From the time youwere young, like many other people before you, you might have kept asecret diary into which you poured all of your dreams andaspirations. As you’ve grown older and you’re now the slave of aMaster or Mistress, you might want to use that diary tool again –this time as a slave journal. This written
How to Keep Your BDSM Relationship Private
While the world is becoming more and more accustomed to seeing images of sex and all of its many flavors of fetish, the fact remains that BDSM is still not a sexual practice that is widely accepted. As a result, it is probably a priority for you to hide your lifestyle. At the same time, you may not want to completely go into hiding with
Using BDSM to Enhance Intimacy
While television and other media sources might have you believe that BDSM is just for the wicked and dangerous, this is not always the case. Though it’s true that BDSM is considered to be more of a fetish than an everyday sexual behavior, that does not mean it can not be just as fulfilling as the idea of making love. In fact, many couples have
Orgasm Control Training: They Can’t Resist
Like dangling a carrot in front of a rabbit (or at least that worksin cartoons), using orgasm control training in your slave trainingrelationship can be highly effective. By teaching your slave whenthey can and can not orgasm, you will be able to control their mindas well as their body for your personal pleasure. The problem most people have with orgasm control training is thatthey often
Pushing Your Slave Away is a Good Thing
Sometimes you might feel like you give your slave too much of yourself – without getting anything in return. You might begin to feel like you’re the one doing all the work, and you begin to resent this. As a Dominant, you have the right and the responsibility to take care of yourself as you take care of your slave. If this means heading off
Prepping Your Batty
Strap-ons are going to be a part of your life, most likely, as a male slave to a dominating Mistress. That said, if you’ve only dreamt of being pummeled in the ass before meeting your Mistress, you need to do some work before the time comes to play. Though you might think taking it ‘like a man’ is the best way to show your Mistress
Claustrophobia During BDSM Training
It’s happened to many a slave. They’ve been in a bondage scene, a mummification scene – or some other intense scene – and they’ve suddenly felt like they couldn’t breathe. The slave may have simply panicked with things being a bit too intense, while others feel claustrophobic and as though they might have died or been hurt. These are not good feelings to have when
How To Set The Mood
Whether you’re a submissive or a Dominant, the mood of the scene you will be in matters. How you take the time to setup your scene and how much thought you put into creating just the right mood for that particular session will help to enhance your time together. There are many simple ways to create the sort of scene you want – dark, romantic,
Who Says You Can’t Have Kids and a BDSM Relationship?
Hi Mistress Sophia and Master Bishop, I have absolutely loved all the emails you have sent and learnedso much from each. There is one problem that my husband and I are having and that isthat we have three children, but we want to experience morewithin our Dom/sub relationship. We have just started exploring bdsm within our relationship, but Idon’t want our children to know about
Does a Slave Deserve to Be Happy?
Whether you are Dominant or submissive, you can’t have a BDSM relationship without the other. The question becomes, does a slave deserve to be happy in the relationship? The answer to this question is tricky, however, as many Dominants aren’t sure how to define happy and whether training or happiness is the more important goal. After all, contracts are nice, but a slave can always
Ramping Up Your BDSM Play
You might come to a point in your BDSM play when you begin to feellike you can do more. Whether you’re a Dom/me or a sub, you mightget to a point when you feel as though things need to be a littleheavier in order to bring you pleasure. This is a naturalprogression in most BDSM relationships. Although, it’s far morecommon for the Dominant person to
Preventing Injury In BDSM
Accidents certainly happen in the world of BDSM – especially to newer players on the scene. But just because you will certainly have something go wrong at some point doesn’t mean that you need to simply sit back and wait for it to happen. You can take steps to help not only prevent problems, but also you can learn how to handle accidents and injuries
