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The Difference Between BDSM And Abuse
I continually receive emails and comments at The BDSM Training Academy about how BDSM is a form of abuse. I find it very upsetting, especially when we try so hard to educate people on how to incorporate a safe, sane and consensual form of BDSM here at the Academy. BDSM is meant to enhance and strengthen a healthy, loving relationship.
The Difference Between Fake And Real Dominants
Choosing the Dominant that you want to serve is a serious decision. One that is taken far too lightly but in fact should not be. Making yourself mentally and physically vulnerable to the wrong person can have terrible repercussions. A genuine Dominant can produce a supportive relationship that will allow a submissive to feel safe enough to be their true self.
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Female Slave Training Program
Experience the sensations and challenges of submissive training for yourself. Listen to what submissive e had to say about the female training program: “It has been an honor to be trained and guided by you in my submission. Not only did I learn so much from your teachings, but I have never been so excited in my life. Your ability to understand a submissive’s mind
Dealing with Resistance to Slave Training
I know it sounds shocking that a slave would resistbut it does happen. This is an important lesson for a Dominant andsubmissive to understand: Though the question of whether or not punishment is an effectiveway to deal with resistance to slave training, the answer of justhow to deal with slave training resistance is somewhat unclear.But what is clear is the idea that resistance to slave
Female Submissive Challenge
Experience the sensations and challenges of submissive training with Master Bishop Master Bishop has been working long and hard on an online female submissive training program that will help to educate, motivate and enforce proper slave etiquette and behavior. A program that will dig down to the root of your submission and provide you with an environment to express it freely. Whether you’re a beginner
After a Bad BDSM Scene, What Do You Do?
Just like a bad date, you might feel awkward and confused after a bad BDSM session. Maybe the slave couldn’t reach any of the goals set by the Master or Mistress, or the Master or Mistress just couldn’t get the slave to do anything they wanted them to do. Whatever happened, the session just didn’t go as planned. Both parties might be feeling bad at
Am I Kinky Enough?
Hi Master Bishop & Mistress Sophia, Your information has helped me to learn so much. Thank you. I enjoy some spanking and light bondage during sex. I’m just curious does that make me kinky? Sincerely, J.S. Calgary================================================================= Hi JS and thanks for your email. Everyone wants to label and define what they do in the bedroom. Are you kinky or are you vanilla? Are you
How to Learn the Most from Your Master/Mistress
As a slave, you already know you have an important job in your life – to serve your Master or your Mistress. And in this role, you have a number of duties. You might have a contract or a list of the things you are supposed to do, when you’re supposed to do them, etc. But if you’re newer to the position of being a
Feeling Uncomfortable With Your Slave Training
When Your Slave Wants to Do Something You Don’t Want to Do As a Dominant, you have a lot of different things you can do withyour slave. You can push them right up to their boundaries bylooking at what you’ve agreed to include in scenes as well asthings you’ve decided you both might want to try. But what happenswhen your slave wants to do something
Switching Things Up
Hi Mistress Sophia and Master Bishop, I am new to being a Mistress and while I love Dominating a man,some day I just don’t feel like being Dominant. Sometimes I wantto give up control and be submissive. Is that ok? Thank you for all your information, it has been very helpful. Respectfully, Mistress Dee, Dallas ================================================================== Sometimes, you just want to put your feet up.
Too Old for BDSM?
When the gray in your hair begins to overtake your natural color, you might begin to look over the things you’re doing in your life to see if changes need to be made. If you’re into BDSM, you might wonder if you need to hang up your whip and your gag and go back to vanilla sex. After all, your body isn’t as limber as
Budget Conscious Dungeon Building
Just because the economy is sinking doesn’t mean you need to give up your dream of having a dungeon in your house. BDSM shouldn’t have to suffer just because money might be tight, after all. And the good news is that there are many ways for you to either start or add to your personal BDSM lair when you’re under budget constraints. All you need
Preparing Your Body for a Session
When you know you’re going to be with your Master or Mistress, it can be difficult to concentrate on anything else. But as their slave, you need to make sure their experience is as enjoyable for them as it is for you. Cleanliness is next to godliness, at least, that’s what you’ve heard. Your body should be in the best shape possible for each session
How to Make a Slave Contract
While some people like to play with BDSM in order to add a little spice to their bedroom activities, others take things more seriously. You might be one of those people who want to set up a strong power relationship between yourself and your slave – but how do you get started? When you’re serious about building a Master-slave relationship, you need to start off