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The Difference Between BDSM And Abuse

The Difference Between BDSM & Abuse

BDSM is meant to enhance and strengthen a healthy, loving relationship. In no way shape or form, would W/we ever support any form of abuse. It is wrong to physically or emotionally lash out at another person and cause that person any form of mental, emotional or physical harm or duress.
In the image below you will be able to see a list of the big differences that I believe separate BDSM from abuse. Have a look and let Me know what you think.

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The Difference Between Fake And Real Dominants

Choosing the Dominant that you want to serve is a serious decision. One that is taken far too lightly but in fact should not be. Making yourself mentally and physically vulnerable to the wrong person can have terrible repercussions. A genuine Dominant can produce a supportive relationship that will allow a submissive to feel safe enough to be their true self thus allowing for more intense experiences. In the image below you will be able to see a list of the big differences that I believe separate BDSM from abuse. Have a look and let Me know what you think.

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Dominatrix Question: I’m Afraid Of Saying The Wrong Thing

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Question: He is one of those subs who likes to test his boundaries and either talk back or be disobedient intentionally to receive punishment. I usually resort to spanking. But I don’t think this is entirely successful because I know this is what he wants. However he does respond better to verbal degradation and does actually obey after some whipping when it becomes too much. […]

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The Beauty Of Corsets

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While no one knows the exact origins of the corset, some evidence has shown simple corsets were being wore in Ancient Greece. The use of corsets became more evident around the 16th century but did not become popular and a common article of clothing until the early to mid 1800’s. It’s purpose was to cinch a waist to help form the extremely small waist desired

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Sensory Stimulation (vs. deprivation)

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One of the basic BDSM scenes that you can do is to keep a slave from knowing what is happening. This allows the sensations to be more concentrated and it can cause the slave to be more in tune with the practices they are trying to learn. However, sensory stimulation is another good practice that allows and encourages a slave to focus on their actions

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Train Your Body To Orgasm On Command

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Quite a few people still believe that women’s bodies are these gigantic mysteries with some complex code needed to unlock the ever-elusive Orgasm. The misconception that women are unable to be easily aroused is false.

Women tend to be more easily stimulated by more cerebral things – better put, women’s minds need to be turned on first before their bodies will follow. So, with this in mind, when it comes to a female submissive wanting to orgasm on command for their Master, you first must stimulate the mind to provide the body with the space it needs to let go and follow when instructed.

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Learning To Orgasm On Command

Safe Wax Play

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The scene with wax is one that plays out in many BDSM movies and stories. The hot wax dripping on the skin seems like the perfect way to make a slave squeal with fright and pleasure. But while the movies make it seem so easy, the truth is that wax play can be dangerous if you don’t do it right. It’s a good idea to

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Adding A Hook To Your Training

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When you have all of the regular sex toys in your bedroom, you might itch to try something new, something that makes your slave squirm and that makes your heart beat faster as soon as you pull it out. The anal hook is one of the sex toys that’s not only coveted by slaves, but also by Masters and Mistresses who want to show their

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TPE: Total Power Exchange

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Power – the power over someone else’s thoughts, patterns, choices, and actions – this is the gift of a slave to a Master or Mistress. And while there might be times when the Dom/me and slave have to negotiate to decide what power means and how much to give, there are BDSM relationships in which the Dominant is able to have complete control over their

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Why Quality Bondage Gear Makes A Difference

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It’s true that making a submissive’s training uncomfortable and painful can help them focus and teach them how to properly obey your commands. You must first remember that there is a good kind of uncomfortable and a bad kind of uncomfortable. For example, giving your submissive a hard spanking or nice caning is a good kind of uncomfortable that will cloud their mind but not

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Should a Slave Be Afraid?

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In the BDSM relationship, adrenaline seems to be as valuable a tool as any whip or chain. When a slave is afraid, they are going to be more sensitive and they are also more likely to make mistakes, helping the Master or Mistress have some behaviors to train, while also helping to excite the Master or the Mistress who is turned on by the need

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