It’s true that making a submissive’s training uncomfortable and painful can help them focus and teach them how to properly obey your commands. You must first remember that there is a good kind of uncomfortable and a bad kind of uncomfortable. For example, giving your submissive a hard spanking or nice caning is a good kind of uncomfortable that will cloud their mind but not distract them from hearing you. This gives them an opportunity to learn to calm and focus their mind.
On the other hand, poor-quality bondage gear is a prime example of a bad training scenario that is uncomfortable. Poor quality bondage gear continuously bites, scraps, and rubs against a submissive’s skin, becoming a painful distraction that never goes away. Think of an itch that you can never scratch.
At first, it’s a little annoying, but as time passes, it’s the only thing you can think about. It doesn’t matter what else is happening around you; all you can think about is scratching that itch. This is exactly what happens when low-quality gear is used in training. It distracts a submissive from hearing you and being able to learn from your Dominance. Since they will be bound by this gear for extended periods, this distraction will become mentally and physically overwhelming and exhausting.
If you want a submissive to pay attention to your commands and appreciate your training, you need to use quality bondage gear. The type of gear that a submissive loves being restrained with and represents your Dominance to its fullest potential.
Watch this short video to learn the 5 things you must look for in the type of gear you incorporate into your training.
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By Master Bishop
The founder of the BDSM Training Academy. Master Bishop has been involved in the Dominant/submissive lifestyle for over 20 years. With a love for education both learning and teaching, Master Bishop has passed on his knowledge and experience to others entering into the BDSM lifestyle for over 15 years.
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Nice informative video. Hope people will watch and learn from it!