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The Difference Between BDSM And Abuse
I continually receive emails and comments at The BDSM Training Academy about how BDSM is a form of abuse. I find it very upsetting, especially when we try so hard to educate people on how to incorporate a safe, sane and consensual form of BDSM here at the Academy. BDSM is meant to enhance and strengthen a healthy, loving relationship.
The Difference Between Fake And Real Dominants
Choosing the Dominant that you want to serve is a serious decision. One that is taken far too lightly but in fact should not be. Making yourself mentally and physically vulnerable to the wrong person can have terrible repercussions. A genuine Dominant can produce a supportive relationship that will allow a submissive to feel safe enough to be their true self.
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Are You Being Too Rough with Your Slave?
A Mistress’ work is never done, it seems. With all of the bad things your slave is doing, you might feel as though your job is becoming harder than their job. At the same time, you might feel as though you need to be harder on your slave than ever before, but the look in their eyes doesn’t seem to be as bright as it
Collar And Leash Play
Watch The Sub Crawl Many BDSM relationships focus on the power exchange between theDominant partner and the submissive partner. And what better wayto showcase this power structure than with collar and leash play? One of the problems you might be having with this kind of play isthat it seems like something that has become cliche and silly.But the idea of one person possessing someone else
A Valentine’s Day Special
Since Valentine’s day is coming I felt like helping everybodyexperience more love in their lives. Love with more of a kinkytwist I mean. Is that not what W/we are all searching for in someway or another to feel loved and appreciated with some kinkadded in to make you feel alive? I have some good news: * W/we have just added 5 brand new videos to
Humiliation and Your Slave Training
Humiliation is a favored way to begin to create the idea of controlin a Master and slave relationship, but that doesn’t mean itdoesn’t have its own specific ways to work well – and to not workwell for a relationship. By learning the techniques of humiliationas well as when to use it, you can use this as an effective slavetraining tool. The trick with humiliation is
Subspace Is Not A Dream, It’s An Experience
If you ask ten different slaves what subspace is, chances are good that you will get ten different answers. And that’s because subspace is truly an individual experience that can be created through slave training, but is hard to define. One of the main concerns with subspace is that because the definition is so vague, it’s hard to tell when and if it actually occurs.
A Kinky Suprise For Valentine’s Day
Valentine’s Day is coming upon U/us. Whether you’re a romantic or a kinkster at heart this is a day of passion, pleasure and maybe even a little pain…if you’re lucky. If you’re looking for something nice to show your partner you care or just looking for something to show them you’re ready to heat things up in your play. Lady Scandalous has found that there
The Keys To Role Play
How To Get The Most Out Of A Role Play Scene Role playing can be an amazing way to turn up the intensity of anysexual relationship, but even more so in a bdsm partnership. Whenyou add the element of role playing, you can further create a senseof authority and control in a scene. But there are good ways to dothis and bad ways to do
Happy New Year
I just wanted to take this time and wish everyone a happy new year. 09 is definitely going to be bring some changes but hopefully most of the changes will be for the better. I know that W/we at the BDSM training academy had a very tough year in 08, but W/we also got some new additions to the team. In the end everything worked
Don’t Make This Punishment Mistake
When you’re actively looking to train a slave as a part of yourlife, you need to be wary of ‘experts’ that speak of punishment asthe ultimate way to control a slave and to have them do what youask of them. Punishment has many other uses in your slave traininglife that you will want to consider. The problem with punishment and slave training is that it
Naughty Or Nice
Christmas is upon us and Santa Claus is checking his list to see who has been naughty and nice. Nothing rings in the holidays better then decking the dungeon with whips and clamps. There is no finer gift then receiving the obedient servitude of a loyal submissive. Nicely wrapped up with only a collar around their neck as they kneel patiently under the Christmas tree
What BDSM Is Not
Just as with any different lifestyle you encounter, there are probably a lot of things that you have heard about BDSM – things that aren’t necessarily true. Myth #1 – You can lock a person in a basement and torment them and call it BDSM. The truth is that if the other person is not willfully consenting to this sort of interaction, it’s still against
What is BDSM?
Many people who are looking to bring more kink into their bedroom activities start out with some light spanking, maybe a little bondage with silk scarves or some mild role play. As their interests increase and their desire for something more grows research into BDSM begins. The first question of course is: What is BDSM? There are a number of ways that you might define
