When you’re ready to create a scene, whether as a Master or Mistress, the intensity is something you need to keep in mind. Scenes aren’t just about testing the mettle of a slave, but they are about finding out how well they can keep up with you and with the energy of the scene. In addition, as a Master or Mistress, you’re the one in control of the energy, so you need to know how to ramp it up, how to bring it down, and how to sustain it as your slave continues to serve you. Intensity is tough, but the results are worth the effort.
Share the intensity
Set The Stage
- Tools are laid out – There’s nothing more energy depleting during a scene than when you have to go look for something you need. Instead, make sure that you have all of the tools you need laid out before you or in a convenient location so you can reach out for what you need when you need it.
- High energy music is playing – An easy way to boost the energy of a scene is to use high energy and volume music. Not only will this disorient a slave, but it can also help to create the backdrop and soundtrack for your actions.
- Anything you need is ready – No matter what you think you might need for the scene, it should be ready, set up, and available.
- The slave sees where they will be – A clear view of their position will help a slave focus on the energy of a scene, rather than on anything they need to do to get prepared.
Build The Energy
To build the energy of a scene, it can help to have a common thread that begins when you begin. This might be a phrase, something you’re testing your slave on, etc. No matter what this is, start using this phrase or idea early on and then push this idea harder and harder as the scene continues. Louder and louder, harder and harder, you will begin to push the slave to do things you’ve never seen them do before. Continue to the point that they begin to have troubles maintaining their own energy, and then push them again and again. Whether this looks like them repeating a phrase or you spanking them again and again, continue to go faster and faster, harder and harder.
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Maintain The Level of Enthusiasm
With an awareness of energy, you can begin to see that your part in a scene as a Master or Mistress is to start building the energy and keeping it up there. And once you’re done with your slave, then they can begin to slow down and rest. But only then.
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By Master Bishop
The founder of the BDSM Training Academy. Master Bishop has been involved in the Dominant/submissive lifestyle for over 19 years. With a love for education both learning and teaching, Master Bishop has passed on his knowledge and experience to others entering into the BDSM lifestyle for over 14 years.
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