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The Difference Between BDSM And Abuse

I continually receive emails and comments at The BDSM Training Academy about how BDSM is a form of abuse. I find it very upsetting, especially when we try so hard to educate people on how to incorporate a safe, sane and consensual form of BDSM here at the Academy. BDSM is meant to enhance and strengthen a healthy, loving relationship.

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The Difference Between Fake And Real Dominants

Choosing the Dominant that you want to serve is a serious decision. One that is taken far too lightly but in fact should not be. Making yourself mentally and physically vulnerable to the wrong person can have terrible repercussions. A genuine Dominant can produce a supportive relationship that will allow a submissive to feel safe enough to be their true self.

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The Question of When to Discipline

Once you’ve gotten your BDSM routine down pat, chances are good that you may have troubles with discipline…that is, when to discipline. Chances are good that you just want to discipline your sub all the time, but that’s just not a likely scenario – we all have to work, after all. And domination of your sub is much more easily achieved when you are consistent

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Once the BDSM Honeymoon is Over

In the beginning, the slave-Dominant relationship is one of excitement, servitude, and newness. This is fun and it should be, but just as with any relationship that you want to extend for more than a few dates, the honeymoon isn’t going to last. You will find flaws with your slave and your slave will find flaws in you (not that there are any, of course).

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Slave or Submissive: What Do You Want?

In the world of BDSM, there are a number of different ways to define your relationship. For example, you might be a submissive to a partner, but do you want to be a true slave or a submissive? While all slaves are submissives, not all submissives are slaves. And that’s where it can get a little confusing. Whether you’re in a BDSM relationship now or

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Happy Kinky Year

The end of the year has come and gone. 2010 has just begun. With the New Year many people begin to reflect on the past year. They think about all the good things they have experienced but usually what sticks out are all the naughty things. Naughty things they would like to experience again. Perhaps even think about some new naughty things they would like

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The Night Before Christmas

Well its the night before Christmas and the submissives are definitely stirring inside their cages. So I just wanted to take this time to wish everybody a Merry Christmas. May all your dreams come true whether they are naughty or nice and hoping you and yours are well for the New Year. Happy Holidays From, Master Bishop, Mistress Sophia & the bdsm training team Related

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Kinky WishList

The great part about being Dominant is you don’t have to wait for December to make up your wishlist. I bet you didn’t know that. In fact you can get whatever your little heart desires, whenever you want. submissives are always looking for ways to show their Dom/me that they care and appreciate the time their Dom/me dedicates to their training. The problem arises, when

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How to Remember Multiple Commands

In the course of being a slave, chances are good you will be doing a lot of things you’ve always dreamed of doing. Your life is becoming richer because of your experiences with your Dom/me and you feel as though you’ve grown as a person. However, no matter how happy you might be, many slaves have troubles with the idea of multiple commands. Some Masters

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Training a Slave When You Don’t Have Time

While it seems a little preposterous, those who have been Dominants for a while know that sometimes you just don’t have time for your slave. You enjoy the time you do have, but sometimes life is just messy and your play time can get interrupted by work, family life, and other obligations. However, this doesn’t mean you need to throw in the proverbial towel or

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Staying Focused During A Session

While your Dominant probably makes it look so easy, they’re depending on you to make each session productive and effective. Though you might feel you are completely under Their control, part of your job as your Dominant’s slave is to maintain your focus and your attention each and every minute of the scene. This isn’t always easy. With practice, you can become the sort of

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Is Bondage Really Necessary

When you read about BDSM, it’s hard not to think about bondage, ropes, cuffs etc. But for many people who want to have a Master or a Mistress, or who want to have a slave, it becomes a concern. After all, is bondage really necessary in a BDSM relationship? While it’s true that the ‘B’ seems to indicate this to be the case, all relationships

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Happy Halloween

Its always nice to have a day when everybody can let loose and express their kinky side that has remained dormant all year. Of course if you’re involved in the lifestyle then you don’t need to wait for Halloween to dress up in your finest kink. It doesn’t mean that W/we can’t enjoy it just like everybody else. So be naughty, play a few tricks

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