BDSM is meant to enhance and strengthen a healthy, loving relationship. In no way shape or form, would W/we ever support any form of abuse. It is wrong to physically or emotionally lash out at another person and cause that person any form of mental, emotional or physical harm or duress. In the image below you will be able to see a list of the big differences that I believe separate BDSM from abuse. Have a look and let Me know what you think.
Choosing the Dominant that you want to serve is a serious decision. One that is taken far too lightly but in fact should not be. Making yourself mentally and physically vulnerable to the wrong person can have terrible repercussions. A genuine Dominant can produce a supportive relationship that will allow a submissive to feel safe enough to be their true self thus allowing for more intense experiences. In the image below you will be able to see a list of the big differences that I believe separate BDSM from abuse. Have a look and let Me know what you think.
If you ask ten different slaves what subspace is, chances are good that you will get ten different answers. And that’s because subspace is truly an individual experience that can be created through slave training, but is hard to define. One of the main concerns with subspace is that because the definition is so vague, …
Valentine’s Day is coming upon U/us. Whether you’re a romantic or a kinkster at heart this is a day of passion, pleasure and maybe even a little pain…if you’re lucky. If you’re looking for something nice to show your partner you care or just looking for something to show them you’re ready to heat things …
How To Get The Most Out Of A Role Play Scene Role playing can be an amazing way to turn up the intensity of anysexual relationship, but even more so in a bdsm partnership. Whenyou add the element of role playing, you can further create a senseof authority and control in a scene. But there …
I just wanted to take this time and wish everyone a happy new year. 09 is definitely going to be bring some changes but hopefully most of the changes will be for the better. I know that W/we at the BDSM training academy had a very tough year in 08, but W/we also got some …
When you’re actively looking to train a slave as a part of yourlife, you need to be wary of ‘experts’ that speak of punishment asthe ultimate way to control a slave and to have them do what youask of them. Punishment has many other uses in your slave traininglife that you will want to consider. …
Christmas is upon us and Santa Claus is checking his list to see who has been naughty and nice. Nothing rings in the holidays better then decking the dungeon with whips and clamps. There is no finer gift then receiving the obedient servitude of a loyal submissive. Nicely wrapped up with only a collar around …
Just as with any different lifestyle you encounter, there are probably a lot of things that you have heard about BDSM – things that aren’t necessarily true. Myth #1 – You can lock a person in a basement and torment them and call it BDSM. The truth is that if the other person is not …
Many people who are looking to bring more kink into their bedroom activities start out with some light spanking, maybe a little bondage with silk scarves or some mild role play. As their interests increase and their desire for something more grows research into BDSM begins. The first question of course is: What is BDSM? …
I just wanted to welcome everybody to O/our brand new website and blog. The BDSM Training Academy The BDSM Training Academy was created to grow and expand a positive awareness around the BDSM lifestyle, associated kinks and fetishes in a comfortable, nonjudgemental environment. Everybody’s kinks and fetishes are different in styles and degrees. Nobody should …
When you think of BDSM, you probably think of whips, chains, floggers and all of the other implements of pain and control. And why not? But when you’re trying to start your own exploration of BDSM, it will help if you learn what’s available to use, what it’s used for, and why it’s used. By …
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I have been rereading your book over and over, each time I learn something new.
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Thanks to you I finally realize how strong of a person I am!
P.S. just love all the new tricks I have learned
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