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Common Misconceptions Of Brats In BDSM

During my time in BDSM, and especially my time expressing my more bratty side, I have heard a lot of misconceptions about brats. A lot of people think we need more training, are just topping for the bottom, or even that we do not belong in BDSM. A lot of these myths come from a lack of understanding about the relationship between a Dominant and their brat, and the unique connection they have. The only way to allow for more understanding is to challenge these misconceptions which, lucky for you all, a brat like me loves doing.

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Setting Up Dom Sub Relationship For Success

10 Tips to Set Up a New D/s Relationship for Success

Dominant Male Training, Dominatrix Training, female submissive training, Male Submissive Training / By Molly Lazarus

The beginning of a relationship is a fragile time. One or both partners may still be on the fence as they learn each other’s quirks, preferences, triggers, world views, and all the rest. The first few intimate encounters usually involve some level of stress, regardless of how smoothly or erotically those sessions unfold. We want to think of falling in love as a magical process,

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No Hitting! 10 Painful, Impact-free Ways to Please a Masochist

Dominant Male Training, Dominatrix Training, female submissive training, Male Submissive Training / By Molly Lazarus

Spanking, paddling, whipping, caning, mmm YUMMY. Words like these are music to a masochist’s ears. Well, some masochists, anyway. Believe it or not, there are those who don’t like to be hit. They may have experienced prior trauma related to hitting. Others simply don’t enjoy the sensation. In cases like these, doms must get creative. Whether your sub dislikes impact or you’re simply seeking additional

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Make the Most of Your BDSM Skills During Lockdown

Dominant Male Training, Dominatrix Training, female submissive training, Male Submissive Training / By Molly Lazarus

Welp, there’s no nice way of saying it. These are challenging times! Our individual and collective futures are loaded with uncertainty, and feeling isolated from those we love doesn’t help. Luckily for us kinky types, we already hold a number of valuable skills that can help us thrive through these tense periods of lockdown. Here’s how you can make the most of them. Sharing is

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Taking a Break from BDSM

Dominant Male Training, Dominatrix Training, Female Submissive, Male Submissive Training / By Paul Bishop

Sometimes, you just need a break, don’t you? Change is, after all, a good way to get perspective, to learn about new things so that when you go back to what you know, you can be refreshed. However, BDSM is a different sort of practice. In order to have a strong BDSM relationship, you need to continue training and practicing the actions you decide to

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I had to accept my failures as a Dominant in BDSM

House Rule: Failure

Dominant Male Training, Dominatrix Training, female submissive training, Male Submissive Training / By The BDSM Training Academy

I wanted to write about a powerful topic that must people avoid and tends to keep the majority of us down. It considered worst than any four letter word and even more taboo to talk about these days then BDSM. And that is “FAILURE” In a time when the law of attraction and positive thinking have practically become new age religions. Nobody wants to even

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Learn To Compartmentalize Your BDSM Self

Dominant Male Training, Dominatrix Training, female submissive training, Male Submissive Training / By Molly Lazarus

Much of what we do in BDSM involves roleplay, and not just the ‘strict teacher / naughty student’ dress-up variety. Simply acting as the top or bottom in a scene is a role in itself, complete with its own responsibilities, energy, and intentions. The more we’re able to immerse ourselves in the headspace of our role during play, the more powerful the experience becomes.

The intense experiences we have during play have the potential to transform our everyday lives, for better or worse. For BDSM to be a healthy practice, it’s crucial that we refine our ability to cleanly separate fantasy from reality. Learning to compartmentalize BDSM will allow you to reap the benefits of kinky sexploration while continuing to function harmoniously outside the bedroom.

If we don’t learn to compartmentalize, BDSM can end up negatively impacting our psychological state, our relationships, and even our career.

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The Alpha Dominant Enigma

Dominant Male Training, female submissive training / By The BDSM Training Academy

In my last article, (Why Some Alphas Desire Submission) I discussed the recent research showing how everybody suffers from what is called “Mental Exhaustion.” It is this form of cognitive exhaustion that greatly reduces the number of decisions that can be made everyday by a single person. Once too many decisions have been made an individual’s ability to properly make further decisions and think critically

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Why I Love The St. Andrew’s Cross

Dominant Male Training, Dominatrix Training, female submissive training, Male Submissive Training / By Kayla Lords

If you can’t tell, I love the St. Andrews Cross. he cross offers the potential for so much play. Bondage and restraint, Pain and impact play, Sensation and surprise…Whatever you desire the St. Andrew’s Cross is my favorite piece of dungeon furniture to play on.

The wood was cool against my cheek, flush with anticipation of what was to come and the heat of the first strike across my bottom. With a blindfold stealing my vision, plummeting me into darkness, I could only wait, knowing that the next sensation could be almost anything — the sharp smack of a paddle, the searing pain of the cane, or a sensual caress down my naked back.

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Impact Play is More Than Spanking

Dominant Male Training, Dominatrix Training, female submissive training, Male Submissive Training / By Kayla Lords

While spanking is not required in BDSM nor does everyone love to engage in spanking, it is a popular kinky activity. Whether you love the control, the pain, or the intimacy of spanking, it’s worth exploring other avenues. Even if you don’t engage in anything other than your favorite bare-handed spanking, you may pick up some new tricks in the process.

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Common Misconceptions Of Brats In BDSM

10 Tips to Set Up a New D/s Relationship for Success

No Hitting! 10 Painful, Impact-free Ways to Please a Masochist

Make the Most of Your BDSM Skills During Lockdown

Taking a Break from BDSM

House Rule: Failure

Learn To Compartmentalize Your BDSM Self

The Alpha Dominant Enigma

Why I Love The St. Andrew’s Cross

Impact Play is More Than Spanking

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