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How To Plan A BDSM Scene

Many Dominants try to train submissives by simply doing whatever comes to mind or by having a basic outline of what they may want to do.  Many experienced Dominants can get away with this because they have experienced much of the different training scenarios previously and know how they will be able to handle any changes they need to make on the fly.  Where this […]

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Vulnerability and Dependence In BDSM Relationships

In every slave training experience there comes a time when the questions of vulnerability and dependence will need to be discussed. Slave training is not realistic on a 24/7 basis, so focusing on the way a slave feels when the Dominant is something that needs to be considered. Most people aren’t quite sure how to define the idea of vulnerability and dependence. For example, many

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BDSM Question: My Submissive Likes A Plan

Question: Hello, I have been receiving your e-mails and have found them most informative. I’m an online Dominatrix myself. I have many boys under my control. My issue is I have one who I love dearly, but he likes plans. I go into it with a general idea and just flow with it. Do you have any suggestions for plotting and planning out a scene?

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A Slave Worshiping Their Mistress

Its always a good idea to make sure your submissive is getting enough exercise in their life. So make sure you take them for regular walks. Here a question for you: Dominants, are you walking your subs regularly? submissives, do you enjoy being taken for walks with your collar and leash? Leave your answers in the comment section below Some people look at Dominant/submissive relationships

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Becoming A Pet In BDSM

Those that want to explore the dominance and submission roles of BDSM might find that the Master/Mistress and slave roles just don’t appeal to them. Instead, they want to have a sense of giving over power, but in a less authoritarian way. If this sounds like something that might appeal to you, it can help for you to think about how you might be a

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Dominatrix Question: How Do I Get Inside My Boyfriends Head

I’m a 24-year-old girl with a 29-year-old boyfriend. We’ve been in a relationship for 5 years. I’ve always been used to being controlled, but now he wants me in charge. I’m not used to this and need a little advice, if you can help! Obviously I’ve been getting your emails, and they do help. I enjoy being worshiped and knowing my boyfriend’s happiness in in

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How to Enforce Chastity Rules

If you’re a Master/Mistress that wants to make sure your slave only hungers for you, then you may want to try out some chastity training. But how can you be sure that your slave is following your commands when you’re not around? How to enforce chastity with your submissive? First of all, if there is any doubt about the trust in your relationship, this might

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Show Me You Want A Flogging

It is one thing to flog a submissive, but it is another thing for a submissive to want and desire that flogging.  To see them shake with excitement from just the idea.  To see their body tense in anticipation and beg to have the session begin.  To hear them moan with the slightest touch. Then people say that this is cruel, humiliating and derogatory.  How

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Dom/sub Journal: Lead Or Follow?

Lead or Follow?  Dominant or submissive?  For many people this seems like such a silly question. If you are interested in BDSM then obviously you must know what you prefer.  However, this is one of the most complex questions within BDSM.  You must truly know yourself and your desires to understand your answer to this question.  Many people will say they are Dominant for years,

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