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The Difference Between BDSM And Abuse
I continually receive emails and comments at The BDSM Training Academy about how BDSM is a form of abuse. I find it very upsetting, especially when we try so hard to educate people on how to incorporate a safe, sane and consensual form of BDSM here at the Academy. BDSM is meant to enhance and strengthen a healthy, loving relationship.
The Difference Between Fake And Real Dominants
Choosing the Dominant that you want to serve is a serious decision. One that is taken far too lightly but in fact should not be. Making yourself mentally and physically vulnerable to the wrong person can have terrible repercussions. A genuine Dominant can produce a supportive relationship that will allow a submissive to feel safe enough to be their true self.
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How To Teach My Boyfriend To Control Me
I was in a D/s relationship for 3 years until he had to move back to Australia. Now that I have told my new partner that I am submissive, he would like to understand me and the lifestyle as well as he knows that I do not want a vanilla relationship. He said he has always found it interesting and I was attracted to him
Keep The Submissive Guessing
If you’ve ever been in a BDSM scene, you might wonder how you can make things more intense. After so much BDSM in the media and in movies, it seems that nothing is surprising to anyone anymore. With a blindfold, however, you can make sure that your partner is completely surprised by what’s going to happen next. They will only be able to guess at
Why Would Someone Want To Be Dominant?
What is it that draws a Master or Mistress into wanting to Dominate another person? Power is a powerful thing in this world. When you look at the people who hold power, you see that they are able to get whatever they want, whenever they want. People who are in control of companies, for example, are able to change the course of their employees by
Changing From Wife To Submissive
Have a glance at how sub-kathleen went from a miserable housewife to a happy loving slave. It makes you wonder why more people don’t choose to accept the collar around their neck in their pursuits of happiness. Regards, Master Bishop As I develop and grow as a submissive/slave I have experienced an amazing transformation from unhappy frustrated angry housewife to a happy calm pleasant submissive/slave.
Why Would Someone Want To Be A Slave?
Why would someone want to be submissive? Why would someone want to be controlled? I find this question to be quite refreshing, as many people just talk about how they like something and they never question WHY they like it. So, for those who haven’t been in the submissive role, it’s a mystery as to why anyone might submit to another person. Let’s think about
Gas Mask Play
At some point, you may have found a BDSM video that included a gas mask as another way to control a slave. There is something creepy about the mask, something that distorts the face and causes the scene to go from normal to slightly strange. With this introduction of the rubber gas mask, even the familiar scenes in a BDSM relationship can be more intense
Rules to Follow at a Play Party
Play parties can be a fun way to bring your BDSM loving out into the world. And even if you’re not currently with a partner, you can enjoy the support of the BDSM community by leaving your house and going to gatherings with others who understand your needs and desires. But as with any party, there are some rules you want to keep in mind
Cleaning House Just the Way Mistress Likes It
Serving your Mistress is what you desire as a slave. No matter what your Mistress wants, you feel that need to please her – without question. But sometimes Mistress doesn’t need you to lick her boots or crawl on the floor. Often, a Mistress who has a number of slaves or other responsibilities need a few mundane tasks taken care of when they are busy.
Want a Full Time Slave But Worried about the Responsibility?
Many Masters might look to be confident about their roles, but when it comes to being good at what they do, they can worry just as much as anyone else. And with good reason. Training someone else is hard work and it takes a lot of focused commitment. When a Master is thinking about taking on a new slave, especially full time, they should give
Serving Master Has Made Me A Better Me
Driven by my desire to serve and please Master and with Master’s guidance and patience He has helped me to grow and become a better me. Not by changing who i am as an individual but by focusing my servitude and submission in a direction that ultimately guides me to think and respond as His submissive/slave. In turn this has improved my thought process, my
Taking Your Corporal Punishment
As a slave, it is your duty to take your punishments as gracefully as you can. While your Master might be training you to be the best slave you can be, you also need to take responsibility for your part in the process. In a corporal punishment scene, where you are expected to receive punishment after punishment, you need to know how to be the
BDSM Fun When Its Sunny
When the weather is hot and sunny, you might want to get out of the dungeon once in a while. There are many ways in which you can turn up your BDSM fun with your slave once the summer months begin, and you can make sure they’re all the better for it. While a change of scenery can be disturbing to some slaves, often that’s
