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The Difference Between BDSM And Abuse

I continually receive emails and comments at The BDSM Training Academy about how BDSM is a form of abuse. I find it very upsetting, especially when we try so hard to educate people on how to incorporate a safe, sane and consensual form of BDSM here at the Academy. BDSM is meant to enhance and strengthen a healthy, loving relationship.

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The Difference Between Fake And Real Dominants

Choosing the Dominant that you want to serve is a serious decision. One that is taken far too lightly but in fact should not be. Making yourself mentally and physically vulnerable to the wrong person can have terrible repercussions. A genuine Dominant can produce a supportive relationship that will allow a submissive to feel safe enough to be their true self.

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Ice Play for Your Submissive

Sensations that alter your slave will cause their mind to be more under your control than ever before. When you continue to change the way that the slave expects to feel, you will continue to sharpen their mind and mold their existence to your desires. While it might sound simple, even mundane, the introduction of ice to your play scenes will encourage them to be

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Submissive Question: I Feel Neglected By My Master

What do I do when I feel neglected and instead of talking about it I let it build up until I have an emotional outburst and get released? 🙁 Or does it just mean I was neglected because I was unwanted…just like I felt like… Anonymous ========================================== Master Bishop’s Response Related Posts BDSM Protocols: Part 1 – Introduction I feel like the least-likely guy on

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Giving Her The Spanking She Deserves

As I walked through the door I was greeted by the most beautiful site. My slave kneeling before the door, hands held behind her back and eyes starring at the floor. she was dressed in her finest collar, a beautiful waist cincher, no panties and high heels. Bowing before Me, with her hands extended in front of her, My slave requested if there was anything

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Punishing The Bad Student

The bad slave is one that should be punished, but when you want to train your slave to be good, why not try a role playing scene for a change? Because they will be out of their normal element, the slave will need to make sure they are listening to your guidance and following the new rules as they discover them in their position. Being

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Ways To Balance Your Vanilla Life With Your BDSM Life

Your BDSM life is something that you value, something that you believe in and something that you enjoy. But what happens when you’re also balancing the idea of a vanilla life? For some BDSM couples, it’s not just about the BDSM they enjoy, but they also want to have times of vanilla. And the question becomes: can you have both? *************************************************** Why Vanilla Might Still

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Waiting For Her Flogging

She closed her eyes and leaned against the cold hard wall, as she waited in heightened anticipation for the flogging she had begged her Master for. It had felt like months since her last flogging, though it had only been a few days. The memory of leather falls striking against her flesh was slowly fading. She knew that she needed a reminder of her Master’s

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Choosing A Collar

A BDSM slave training collar for many people is a symbol of a Dominant and submissive relationship. When used and applied properly, a submissive training collar can help to strengthen a Dom/sub relationship. It helps to reinforce the roles within a Dom/sub relationship. The slave knows they are submissive once the collar is placed around their neck. The Dominant knows the submissive is living to

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Telling Your Partner You Like BDSM

One of the most difficult things about this lifestyle, if not the most difficult is telling the person you care about or even love that you like BDSM. The reason why it can be so difficult is because you never know how the other person is going to react. Will they be excited by it, or will they be disgusted? Will they be supportive or

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The Spanking Bench Scene

If your slave has been bad, you already know what you need to do – spank her. She deserves the punishment and you know how to make sure she understands that she’s not in your good graces. But there is more that you can do in order to have a spanking scene be effective in your training goals. With a spanking bench, you can create

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Dominant BDSM Question: When a Sub is More Experienced

I have always known who I am but I have just recently looked into expressing myself as a Dom. Recently I met sub who has more experience than me and wishes for me to take her as a 24/7 pet. This is what I would like and she is everything I have been looking for. I like her very much, but don’t want to disappoint

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How BDSM Enhanced My Life

As with many long term relationships things change and evolve and sometimes these changes are not for the better, but then there are times when the changes are over the top amazingly fulfilling. O/our journey into the BDSM lifestyle and our new 24/7 TPE (Total power exchange) relationship has brought a new dynamic to our sexual relationship that frankly i truly only felt was possible

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How To Teach My Boyfriend To Control Me

I was in a D/s relationship for 3 years until he had to move back to Australia. Now that I have told my new partner that I am submissive, he would like to understand me and the lifestyle as well as he knows that I do not want a vanilla relationship. He said he has always found it interesting and I was attracted to him

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