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The Difference Between BDSM And Abuse
I continually receive emails and comments at The BDSM Training Academy about how BDSM is a form of abuse. I find it very upsetting, especially when we try so hard to educate people on how to incorporate a safe, sane and consensual form of BDSM here at the Academy. BDSM is meant to enhance and strengthen a healthy, loving relationship.
The Difference Between Fake And Real Dominants
Choosing the Dominant that you want to serve is a serious decision. One that is taken far too lightly but in fact should not be. Making yourself mentally and physically vulnerable to the wrong person can have terrible repercussions. A genuine Dominant can produce a supportive relationship that will allow a submissive to feel safe enough to be their true self.
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When BDSM Goes Wrong
If you’ve been in a BDSM relationship for any period of time, you will notice that some scenes are better than others. Even though you might have everything planned out, this doesn’t mean that you’re going to have it go the way you’ve planned. And in some cases, you might have a very horrible scene, one in which one or both partners have troubles or
A Happy Holiday To You All
Once again it is that time of year where many people put down their floggers and leave the dungeon to spend some quality time with their vanilla friends and family. A time to show those closest to U/us that W/we love them. With 364 days to enjoy the dungeon, I guess W/we can always focus on O/our friends and family for the holidays. So enjoy
The Nurturing Daddy Dom
Often, the ‘daddy’ is someone who is in charge of the relationship. While some might not take well to this term, preferring ‘Master’ instead, the softer name has other connotations that might help to create a connection between the partners in a BDSM relationship. The idea of one person being the protector of the other person, the keeper of their safety is something that can
Giving Your Sub the Apron Treatment
Service – it’s what your slave should be doing for you every moment that you ask. While you might not be able to think of new things for them to do all the time, it’s a good idea to train your slave in how to serve his Mistress, should the need arise. Whether they are a house slave or a traditional slave, you need to
Have You Been Naughty Or Nice?
Do You Want To Know What Naughty Boys And Girls Really Want For Christmas? …Its More Then A Lump Of Coal Just because Santa only gives gifts to good girls and boys, does not mean you can’t reward your partner with something special for being extra naughty this past year. Here are just a few of My favorite BDSM toys for all
Complete Trust Within A Dom/sub Relationship
I just read this article by sub-kathleen and I had to immediately post it for everyone to read. I know I have talked about trust in BDSM multiple times before, but sub-kathleen has experienced a moment that has reshaped her life and her whole ideas of what trust truly is. It is this kind of trust that will build your relationship and strengthen your bond.
The Internal Motivations of a Dominant
When you want to be in control of another person, you might become a boss or a manager. But for some, this control extends into the bedroom, where they can be in control of another’s feelings, experiences, and their comfort. While some dominants don’t take the time to think about it, when you begin to understand your true motivations for being a Mistress or a
The Internal Motivation of a Submissive
A submissive is a person that willingly gives over control to a dominant, either in a relationship or within a specific playtime. But what drives a submissive to want to give up this control? There are many different motivations, almost as many as there are submissives in the world. Understanding why a submissive decides to take over their slave role allows not only the slave
Being a Good Online Submissive
Being a slave is a tough job – and it should be. If you were already good at being a slave, you wouldn’t need a Master/Mistress to help you. As a slave, you have a number of responsibilities on your plate, all of which are important and should be done dutifully and gracefully. If you are an online slave for some or for part of
A Day For Thanks
Remembrance Day (Nov. 11) is a day where W/we remember and thank those that have made such a difficult sacrifice, so that W/we can all benefit from the freedoms that W/we enjoy. If it was not for these brave men and women W/we would never be able to enjoy all the kinks that W/we do. Whether you play today or any other time in the
Can the Dungeon Be Sensual?
The stereotypical dungeon is cold and absent of anything comfortable, but this doesn’t have to be the case. Instead, you can turn your dungeon into a sensual training ground, one in which you can enjoy being comfortable, as well as being challenged. All you need to do is to make a few simple adjustments and you will find that your room is just as tough
BDSM Question: How To Use A Flogger For Punishment
BDSM Question: How do you use a flogger as a punishment, when a slave likes being flogged? Anonymous Master Bishop’s Response When a slaves like being flogged, sometimes, it’s best for the Master or the Mistress to pull out another tool, not only to keep things exciting, but also to make sure the slave doesn’t get too much pleasure out of something that is designed
