BDSM is meant to enhance and strengthen a healthy, loving relationship. In no way shape or form, would W/we ever support any form of abuse. It is wrong to physically or emotionally lash out at another person and cause that person any form of mental, emotional or physical harm or duress.
In the image below you will be able to see a list of the big differences that I believe separate BDSM from abuse. Have a look and let Me know what you think.
Choosing the Dominant that you want to serve is a serious decision. One that is taken far too lightly but in fact should not be. Making yourself mentally and physically vulnerable to the wrong person can have terrible repercussions. A genuine Dominant can produce a supportive relationship that will allow a submissive to feel safe enough to be their true self thus allowing for more intense experiences. In the image below you will be able to see a list of the big differences that I believe separate BDSM from abuse. Have a look and let Me know what you think.
Christmas parties are starting to fill up everybody’s calendar. While these festivities are always fun, the hardest part tends to be figuring our what to wear that reveals your personality while also staying within the festive theme. Here are just a few ideas to help you out: XXXmas Cane This is the naughtiest Christmas cane that the elves in the North Pole make each […]
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One of the most important characteristics for any Dominant or submissive to have is patience. The dictionary definition of patience is the ability to accept and/or tolerate trouble or suffering without becoming angry. While patience is crucial in many aspects of life it is even more important within submissive training. Losing your temper or becoming angry because things are not going the way you want
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December 25th approaches faster then most people realize and finding a gift that your partner will absolutely love becomes more difficult every year. It’s always gives you such a good feeling to watch your partner unwrap their present only to see their jaw drop and eyes widen in absolute excitement when they realize what an amazing present you gave them. What type of present can
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When it comes to getting your sub in the mood, it would be so much easier if subs were always perfect…but this isn’t realistic. Sometimes subs just aren’t ready for a session, even if they want to be. Your job as the dominant person in the relationship is to make sure your sub is ready to serve you and to be submissive to you when
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Oh Halloween, the time of year where everybody in North America dresses a little more risque, lowers their inhibitions and accepts many of the taboos in the world. If you ask Me, clearly this is a sign that many people truly have a desire for the naughty things in life. While they try to ignore it for most of the year, they need at least
Preparing myself for Master is like preparing a special meal. The time and attention taken is as focused and planned as a 5 course meal. Allow me to share the steps i take to prepare myself for Master. The Recipe Step one: Choose the mood or theme for the meal i believe a special meal should have a theme. Usually the theme is centered on
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You might be a person who likes control – of course you do. You want your slave to do what you want them to do when you want them to do it. In order to stay completely in control, you might even plan out your scenes in great detail so as to ensure your slave is always being challenged and trained. But what about doing
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Trust is one of the tenets of a Master-slave relationship. If your slave doesn’t trust you, then the relationship will fizzle out and die. Often in training, you will create scenarios in which your slave’s trust is tested and tested again. Sometimes, it can be challenging to continuously find ways to test your slave. A new way to test the trust of your slave is
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When you go to see a play, you might notice that the props can often make an ordinary scene one that is memorable. The same thing can be said for BDSM scenes. Though you might have a powerful voice and a strong presence, there’s something more exciting about a Mistress or Master that pulls out a prop and begins to throw it around at a
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I continually receive emails and comments at The BDSM Training Academy about how BDSM is a form of abuse. I find it very upsetting especially when W/we try so hard to educate people on how to incorporate a safe, sane and consensual form of BDSM here at the Academy. BDSM is meant to enhance and strengthen a healthy, loving relationship. In no way shape or
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